I dunno. I know of a couple that, after already giving birth to one baby with cystic fibrosis, went ahead and had another one without taking advantage of genetic testing. Oh, and guess what? The second baby’s got CF much more severely than the first. This is truly criminal to me - the couple knew they were both carriers, knewwhat quality of life their child might have, and had another anyway without testing. Guess they wanted to play the odds. Wouldn’t you save your child that agony if you were able? I’m not saying that children with CF aren’t wonderful people and probably have as much enjoyment of being alive as the next guy, but as a parent, wouldn’t you stop that suffering if you were able?
I’m up with the crowd that believes most women won’t use abortion as birth control or to achieve their perfect child. Not to say there aren’t a few who will (the exception that proves the rule!) - witness the lady who’s spent thousands to turn herself into Barbie or those who’ll abort due to the baby’s sex or because they don’t want to use condoms (geez, imagine the expense. I mean sure, maybe you don’t like the feel, but a pack’ll run you, what, five bucks? “No, I’d rather pay the at least $200 for one abortion.” Wow. I can’t get over that girl.). However, being pro-choice, I don’t know that I wouldn’t support the decision of one of our above hypotheticals and her right to get an abortion. Ethically, I don’t think I’d agree with that choice, but I would support it and her right to choose. Just because I support the right doesn’t mean I have to agree with the reasons leading to that decision. And I’d much prefer an aborted baby girl than one abandoned by her mother, even if she was abandoned at a doorstop, hospital, or orphanage.
For example, although the women who get multiple abortions sadden me and although I might find their actions incomprehensible, I do support their right to have an abortion.
Yes, in the best case scenarios, birth or adoption is best. But that’s not always reality, and I support a woman’s right to choose and her right to get a safe, legal abortion. Even if she wants to get 10. Even if it harms her fertility (which might not be a bad side-effect for the multiple abortion lady, seeing as she didn’t want the first few anyway.
Course, I would question, say, Dennis Rodman’s right to abort himself, or something equally ludicrous. I dunno, jarbaby - give us a “for instance” and we’ll see whose eyebrows are raised.
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