A few things that I keep seeing that I see as counterproductive to an honest and open debate is the implication and even claims that the “pro-life” side is the only side that is opposed to abortion. Many pro-choicers, myself included, are also against abortion. I find abortion to be a very sad thing, and would like to see it limited as much as possible. That embryo/ fetus/ thingy/ potential inventor of fusion and curer of cancer is a unique creation. That particular combination of genetic material never existed before in the universe, and will almost certainly never exist again. It does in fact make me sad to know that that unique potential will never get a chance to develop and show the universe what it can do.
Life doesn’t begin at conception, life began a few billion years ago when some complex groups of chemicals started reducing their internal entropy and replicating at the expense of the environment, conception is just the continuation of life, not the start of it. The same as when the Olympic torch is lit at the host game’s location, that is not when that fire started, even if the event itself is highly celebrated.
If someone asked my opinion on whether or not they should get an abortion, I would advise against it, but that is only if I am asked, and it would have the same level of enforcement as my preference for french vanilla over strawberry ice cream.
If I were to participate conceiving a child, I would certainly want to keep it. I would much more strongly advocate for keeping it if it were my child, and would offer my opinion, even if unasked. I would offer to raise the child myself, even if she wanted no involvement. I would do everything to make her pregnancy as comfortable and convenient as is in my power to do. However, it would still only be my opinion, and while I will concede that it would likely be the end of a relationship if she were to abort our child, I would not think to do anything to actually prevent her from doing so.
As far as the baby/fetus/thingy/potential tyrant of the seven continents(… how about”spawn”? That covers all times of life from conception to completion of a graduate degree), and it’s feelings on the matter, I don’t care much about that. I, as a grown and fully aware creature, fear and avoid death because I have plans. I have plans for tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, and my death would interrupt those plans. I also fear and wish to avoid the death of my friends and family, as I also have plans with them tomorrow, next week, next month, and next year, and their deaths would interrupt those plans as well.
A pre-born spawn has no plans. It has no concept of death. Even if it is developed enough that it can feel pain, it cannot understand what pain means, that pain indicates problems that can result in injury or death, it is just another stimulus to a developing brain. If there is any awareness, it is aware of dark damp warm place with rushing sounds, a heartbeat, and maybe some exterior noise. If that awareness is suddenly snuffed out, it didn’t suffer, it didn’t fear the stroke of the knife, it just was for a bit, then it wasn’t, going back to the same place it was before it was aware.
If it is my child, then I have plans for it, and do not want it to be terminated, but if it is not my child, I have no plans for it, and hearing of its termination causes me the same amount of grief as hearing about the passing an acquaintance’s distant relative. A bit sad in the abstract, but not really something that’s gonna keep me up at night. So, in order for me to be upset about the abortion of someone else’s spawn, I have to have a reason that I have plans for that life. Do the pro-lifers actually have plans for other people’s children? If so, that actually disturbs me more than the floated ideas that it is against women’s rights in general.
Anyone who invokes a religious reason against abortion has automatically conceded the argument in any country that is not a theocracy. There are theocracies in this world, and they generally are not really all that great for their citizens, male and female alike, so I personally reject the imposition of theocratic based legislation, no matter which religion it is inspired by.
As far as policies to prevent abortion goes, I believe comprehensive sex education, along with access to free and freely available birth control methods, will prevent many of the unwanted pregnancies that lead to abortions, as well as a robust safety net, comprehensive healthcare, prenatal care and childcare will give potential mothers more options that may convince them to let their pregnancy come to term. If we can reduce the number abortions that are sought, then we will reduce the number of abortions performed, while also increasing the quality of life for the family and child, rather than ineffectively trying to force our prefered morality onto others with legislation.
To the particular Georgia bill, some of the stuff is maybe a bit of fear mongering, but not really. The georgia bill declares a fetus to be a person. It does not require any other special legislation to make injuring, killing, or risking injury or death to a person illegal, it already is. If someone conspired to commit murder, murder does not have to be committed in order for them to be prosecuted. So it does stand to reason that if someone conspires to commit abortion, then an illegal abortion need not be committed in order to face prosecution. Same with accidents and negligence. We recently had a guy go away for a few years because he was negligent and ran into and killed a garbage truck worker with his car. He had no intent to do so, he would have not killed the guy had he had a choice, but the circumstances still did involve him being responsible for the guy’s death, so he went to jail. If someone is responsible for terminating a pregnancy through their negligence, they could be held to the same account, even if it is the mother. If a woman gets in a car accident and loses her baby, then on top of the trauma and heartache that she would be going through, she would also potentially face legal consequences. Can you guarantee me that that won’t happen? I know that it has been stated by those in favor of the bill that those are extremes that would never come to pass, but it seems this bill paves the way, quite intentionally, for exactly that. Can anyone point what would prevent a prosecutor from charging a mother for losing her pregnancy unexpectedly?
As long as we seem to be sidetracked by the semantics of terminology, might as well go ahead and throw in my 2 cents there, too.
“Pro-life” to me, is someone who values life, not just someone who wants to restrict abortions. If you are against women having abortions, but are also for the death penalty, or advocate for unnecessary wars, or are against healthcare or other life sustaining assistance, then “pro-life” is not an accurate description. At most, it would be “pro life in regards to abortion rights”, but the shortening to “pro-life” is not an accurate description of most of those who choose that label. As an example, back in the day when I was in boy scouts, I was in the “Beaver Patrol”, and yet, I had not even ever seen a beaver. A self chosen label, not a descitroin, is “pro-life”.
That said, you can cal yourself “pro-life”, and in a discussion, I am more than willing to use the terms that people have chosen to label themselves. However, as long as you remember that that label is a name that you have chosen, not a description of your position. So if you proclaim yourself to be “pro-life” and feel as though that gives some sort of morally superior position, because being pro-life means that your opponents are “anti-life” then you have conceded that you have no intent to discuss in good faith.
And if you want to come back and say that “pro-choice” is not an accurate description of a “pro-choicer’s” position, because that pro-choicer doesn’t, for instance, think that having a mere 700 guns to choose from is good enough, then I will be very happy to append the same suffix of “in regards to abortion rights” as the pro-life side must append in order to maintain an honest discussion.
As pure descriptions,m the “pro-abortion rights” and “anti-abortion rights” is probably the most meaningful and honest discretion of the positions.
Just as someone calling gun control advocates “gun grabbers” has conceded that they have no interest in a produce conversation, I can agree that calling those that label themselves as pro-lifers by “anti-woman” or “anti-choice” also tends to bring down the level of discourse to that of name calling, rather than actual exchange of ideas.
Considering that the rhetoric from the pro-life side is much more likely to call a pro-choicer a “baby killer”, certainly a label with some pretty serious negative connotations to it, than a pro-choicer is going to level nearly as disgusting a label, it is best that the discourse stay civil. Do the pro-lifers here unnecessarily condemn the practice of labeling your opponents in this discussion as “baby killers?” If you hear someone at a pro-life rally cry out that abortion is murder, do you correct them? Much as I disagree with the pro-life side, even if I wanted to, I could not come up with as hateful rhetoric as is spewed out with glee by those who think that labeling themselves a s pro life actually means that they are pro-life.