:eek: Mine does. Mother. In the backyard. With her new boyfriend. I’m surprised I didn’t go blind.
No we’re not white trash. It was just a moment of passion.
I’m going for sucking. Because it is more submissive. And I’m quite in favour of being submissive but…not in front of disiterested strangers.
The only time I got caught was in a dark corner of a nightclub…we got thown out of course. But what is a dark nightclub for if not for wanton depraved behavior?
If this happened to me I would NEVER be fine ever again.
I think being caught recieving head is more embarrassing, but only if I know the person busting me. If I don’t know them, I wouldn’t care either way.
My interpretation (and please feel free to correct me if it’s not yours, Indygrrl) is that it’s not. On the contrary, it’s embarrassing to be caught serving, not being served.
That said, “serving” is different from “submitting”, and I find the idea that giving someone a blowjob is “the lowest form of submission” awfully disturbing. I suppose that a blowjob may appear submissive from the outside, but in practice, the one with the power is the one in a position to inflict pleasure or pain at her whim.
I’d prefer not to get caught at all, but if I must, I’m going with fucking, purely because I’m all about the skirts, so at least we’d both be relatively not-naked.
Uh-huh. That’s what WE were thinking until a pushboat came up the river. By the time they turned on the zillion-candlepower spot it was a bit late to run and hide. It was embarrassing, not because of the sex but because we were nekkid. They were strangers and a couple of hundred yards away, so BF got a thrill out of it and I did my best to pretend they weren’t there.
To answer the OP:
Getting caught by strangers: uncomfortable, but funny after the fact.
Getting caught by people I know: traumatic is too tame a word.
Fellatio vs. intercourse: No difference to me WRT getting caught. I’m much more affected by the thought of who the witnesses would be.
The state of undress is a definite factor. The more naked, and the closer (in both proximity and relationship) the witnesses were, the more likely I’d feel embarrassed.
I don’t think it’s dirtier. It’s just less mutual. The embarrassment about getting caught fucking isn’t that someone would find out I am having sex, it’s that they are finding out I’ll just do it wherever even if it’s public or semi public. If I got fucking then I’m not doing anything my partner isn’t doing and I would assume the person who caught us thinks we’re horny, and maybe that we’re idiots.
I don’t even think sucking it is necessarily subservient or degrading but doing it in public probably would be. I think the only excuse for having sex in public would be unbearable urgent horniness but if I’m that unbearably urgent about it I’m going to fuck it, not suck it. To me, giving head in a semi public place is way more open to speculation about your motives and that’s the whole point of embarrassment. I mean, having sex isn’t embarrassing in and of itself no matter what you’re doing, the reason getting caught is embarrassing is your fear of what that person catching you will think.
I used to have a girlfriend that liked to give me head as we went through a tollbooth (this was way before EZ-Pass, when you actually had to hand the tolltaker your ticket and cash, and occasionally wait for change). She liked it because the “public sex” nature of it was erotic, and she was safe because her face was hidden. I got a kick out of it because most people did a doubletake and either smiled (if it was a guy) or shook their head (the women, typically), and then we were outta there in a flash.
A later girlfriend wasn’t open to the idea of it at all, even though she happily engaged in public intercourse numerous times. I never quite understood this, although maybe it boils down to the intercourse/oral sex dichotomy.