Ladies. If you were in a public or semi-public place, having sex with your with boyfriend, and you got caught, would it be more embarrassing to be caught sucking his cock or fucking his cock? And why?
This is intended for a piece of fiction, so if other variables enter into it - your amount of nakedness, your familiarity with the person who spots you, the state of your relationship, etc. etc. - let me know how things would change.
Gentlemen, feel free to join in. Gay couples especially, since the same dilemma is possible for them.
Assume that the couple is single, but has a long relationship. This is not their first act of sex together, in other words, nor are they teenagers for whom any aspect of getting caught would be a disaster. They are comfortable with sex, but getting surprised in public while hot at it will be memorably traumatic and will affect them in the long term. I’m wondering which act would make the trauma worse.