Mine just tried to hide by curling all the way up to my lungs. Seeing how women already do things like turn their eyelids inside out putting on makeup, I’d think you guys would scarcely notice.
An article@ menessentials.com says to “[n]ever remove pubic hair with wax”. I don’t think there is a male equivalent to the brazilian wax. It’s not exactly a flat surface, there’s plenty of loose skin, and much more hair.
(My ex asked my to shave it all off and I didn’t mind at all. Actually, I kept doing it for nearly six months after we broke up).
I wouldn’t worry so much about selecting the method she uses to remove/trim the hair, (although if she’s against it completely, the conditioner idea is a good suggestion) as she’ll probably be more likely to know the method that’d work best for her herself, and what she would/wouldn’t be willing to try.
Rather, I’d just work on your sales pitch. Tell her you think it makes the area much more appealing when giving a woman oral sex, and feels better/different for you during intercourse…or you could always say, “I’ve never been with a girl who had a Brazillain before and I think we’d both really like it, if you’d be willing to give it a try,” and then offer to foot the bill for her to go to a day spa as some of the others were saying, to have that done, as well as foot the bill for a pedicure or some other girly thing she might find a little more…soothing.
Naaah. Just send her and her still-furry parts to me and I’ll put an end to this rubbing of you the wrong way.
Mmm, girl hairs!
I don’t like it when a guy makes it a condition, like if I don’t shave it then he won’t have “happy time” with me. But my man of the moent asked me if he could do it for me and gave me a week or so to get used to the idea then made it a very ummmm… enjoyable time when I gave him the go-ahead. Hee hee ( I said Head)
I guess I don’t ‘get’ the problem in the OP. I would have thought longer pubes would be softer and less scratchy than shorter ones, which is what you seem to be wanting.
It seems to me that it would be a good idea to keep any complaints about the crotch of the beautiful, sexy woman who has hot passionate sex with you to yourself, lest it become the crotch of the beautiful, sexy woman who used to have sex with you. YMMV, of course.
You can bring it up, but be prepared for the possibility that she might point-blank refuse to consider it, or that she might take the opportunity to air her less-flattering opinions on your hygiene or grooming. In the latter case, back hair, butt hair, nose hair, unibrows, excessive chest hair, leg hair, and furry armpits are all fair game, as are deodorant choices, colognes, soaps, toenail length and fingernail length. And then she might get personal about it.
A more effective method might be to simply start taking showers together. Wash and condition her hair for her, above and below. If she asks why you’re conditioning her pubes, just say that you like soft hair and keep moving your hand. If properly executed, this maneuver will keep her from ever asking again. If this isn’t enough to take care of it, and you really want her to have less hair, you could slowly move on to shaving her legs for her, working your way up to doing her bikini line. (Most women do shave at least that during the summer.)
I would NOT gift her with a certificate for a Brazilian. Telling a woman, “Gosh, honey, I love you so much that I’m sending you off to have all the hair on the most sensitive part of your body ripped out by the roots,” has a huge potential for backfire. It certainly wouldn’t go over well in this house, or the homes of most of my friends. Our responses would probably range between hysterical laughter followed by “No, really, what’s the surprise?” to “Right after you get one, babe,” to “Fuck off.”