Quite a few wedding gifts are still used and appreciated - silver serving dishes, vases, the good set of dishes and crystal my in-laws finished as well as the set of Paderno pots. Then there’s the Arcoroc fleur salad set - side dishes and bowls - that I use daily for my breakfast and lunch and as condiment dishes. I remember the couple that gave it to us fondly and wonder how they are - it’s years since I’ve seen them. I still have linens I got at my wedding shower, too.
There’s a crucifix on the wall that I was given by the parents of my Sunday School students when I was still in high school. My aunt gave me a clock for my high school graduation that still works. Dumb thing is pink - a colour I’ve never liked - but she died just before my graduation and I keep it as a memento of her.
I have jewellery from the former spouse and his family and his mom used to buy me awful clothes and mugs but I still have most of them and use them and think of her (she died several years ago, too young). I just don’t wear the clothes outside. My spouse’s grandmother gave me a beautiful little ballerina figurine when he and I were only dating. We were at her place and I admired it and she gave it to me. She, too, is gone but I treasure it greatly.
My stepmom gave me a gorgeous Art Nouveau sculpture done by her father, who was an artist of minor note in England, and I love that.
My dad gave me a camera as a wedding gift and then he gave me all his camera equipment when he became a camcorder fan and his old video camera when he bought his Palmcorder.
Then there are souvenir mugs - I’ve been a mug collector for a while and I remember several but not all, of the givers of many of my mugs.
Pillows! The recent ex-bf gave me a goofy heart-shaped pillow for Valentine’s day. I don’t keep it as fond remembrance (that one didn’t end so well) but the dang thing is handy to put on my lap when I need it under a clipboard to write on or when I’m eating on the couch with a tray. And my best buddy gave me a silly Taz pillow. I wondered what the heck I’d do with it but it turns out it’s perfect as a back support against the pillow on my couch so I use it all the time.
Oh, and the former spouse gave me the family vehicle, which is still going strong. (It was an amicable divorce). It saved my bacon when I had to leave an abusive guy and I figure I’ll keep it until it finally gives up the ghost, which, since it’s a Honda, could be years from now.
There’s more but you can see I’m a sentimental critter - I like to use things I have and hate tossing things that are still handy. It’s just this week that one of the sheet sets given me by the in-laws after one of their shopping trips to the US has worn through - I’ll have to discard a fitted sheet.
Thing is, the entire parental generation is gone - several died years before their time. When I use the things they gave me, it’s a reminder of their consideration and I’m still grateful for having these things which are so useful. That’s why I don’t mind at all getting useful gifts; often they keep on giving in ways that less practical gifts don’t.