Lib, an objective metaphysical reference frame is impossible (with caveats) because all metaphysical reference frames are hidden behind a phenomenological barrier. This is the first level of abstraction and seperation, and without direct action from Gods and Goddesses (Hail Eris!) the barrier is unable to be penatrated.
The recognition of Plank length, time, and so forth, are all made from within the confines of human measurement and inference on those measurements, as well as blatant theorizing which has nothing to do with reality (i.e.—we can trust our senses in specific cases) and literally cannot be tested.
Comparing grids to say that one is more objective, better at explaining star formation, or best deals with human social interaction is an act of observing grids through a grid.
Consider the thought experiment where Einstein attempted to develop a theoretical test to measure complimentary qualities of particles (such as position and momentum) and each time we found that our instruments themselves were subject to uncertainty, too, so no matter what we were screwed. This is just an analogy, but note the ways in which QM has been metaphysically interpreted: Copenhagen Interpretation, Many Worlds Theory, Hidden Variables… etc. They are all consistent with data and answer untestable questions, but all must assert properties of existence which cannot be tested.
You can never measure anything more accurately than your instruments allow, and the existence of the Plank length is asserted as a consequence of the combined theory and evidence of QM.
But that reference frame fails to account for something as (seemingly) ubiquitous as human morality. So what makes this such a good reference frame again?
Nothing.
What frame would you need to use to view all frames with, including itself? You know?