Hi all you who you think you merge correctly when two lanes merge into one. Yes all of you who think the correct thing to do it to merge into the lane that continues.
I understand you think you are doing what you think it correct, and for the greater good, but with all due respect, I think you need to look at the greater picture (and grow a pair).
We have to make some safe assumptions here, probably the most critical one is there are selfish drivers out there who don’t care if everyone else is delayed. Also another important one is there are quite a few of there drivers.
If we can agree on my assumptions, which I assume is pretty safe, I think we can move on to safer and faster merges.
I appeal to you because you are really interested in the greater good - well OK some of you are cowards, but many of you really would like to help out the situation.
Here’s the current problem:
(Almost) all those who care merge early, leaving a tempting open lane for the selfish driver. The longer this open lane is the more tempting it is for the selfish driver to use it till the merge point, and hence, the more people will become ‘selfish drivers’.
Now the advantage the ‘selfish drivers’ have cause people who try to play it right and merge early, or stay in their lane (the thru lane), get slightly annoyed at the drivers zooming by and getting ahead of them. So they follow the car in front of them bumper to bumper to try to prevent a merge. These people who start trying to do the correct thing are now doing the wrong thing by tailgating and not allowing the merge. This tailgating, and the advantage a car has merging alternately as opposed to the car trying to hold his position directly behind a car, and the expected alternate merge pattern (Don’t fool yourself - those who drive in the lane that is about to end expect and demand an alternate merge, just as strong, if not stronger, as you think they are ‘jumping the line’), is what caused shockwaves in traffic, which slows EVERYONE behind you down, making the merge worse and making the problem between good but frustrated drivers and selfish drivers all the greater.
In short you are hurting yourself and your cause.
My proposed solution:
Find a good spot to merge early, but don’t merge, sit in the ending lane w/ you signal on indicating you intend to merge,. but wait till the merge point. This means moving at the speed of the ‘thru’ lane, even if your lane is wide open ahead.
Don’t have the stones for that, admittedly neither do I all the time, then drive slightly faster then the ‘thru - lane’, but not much faster in the lane to be closed and try to get an opening close to the merge point, again just hang out in the ending lane till the merge point and merge smoothly at the last moment.
If you really want to act for the greater good, you will want to eliminate the ‘shock wave’ merge and replace it with a smoother ‘zipper’ merge.
Oh if you are in the ‘thru lane’ and want to help, allow 1 car length as you approach the merge point, this will go far to allow a smooth merge. Also if you see someone trying to help out a smooth merge by driving slowly in the ‘ending lane’ allow him the space he needs to get in.
- A side note, when I drive like this, which is often, I find that as I drive next to a open merge space but done merge early, it usually closes up for a bit, but normally re-opens at the merge point - why? - I don’t know, but it works.