Got called a faggot, getting the run-around

So last night I was in the metro (which is unusual). Wearing a bag with some rainbow buttons on it. A bunch of kids, standing between me and the staircase/emergency phone), saw it and started mocking me and chanting “kill the faggot, kill the faggot”.

Grand total: :mad:

Got on the train and went home. More fear than harm, as the Quebecois say, but I’m a little pissed, and I remember where you’re supposed to report even verbal harassment so they can keep track of it. Whoever “they” is - our local gay and lesbian anti-violence project closed down last year when the government cut its funding.

Grand total: :mad: :rolleyes:

So I call the local gay support hotline. I figure they definitely will keep track of it - I remember we kept track of the nature of the call when I worked at such a line. The nice lady offers her sympathy, congratulates me for wanting to speak out. They do, indeed, record the nature of the call. Do they keep statistics about it or give those statistics to anybody official? Um, no.

Grand total: :mad: :rolleyes: :confused:

She’s definitely on my side though, and says she’ll bring it up at the next staff meeting. I’m sure it’ll go through now that we don’t have any real anti-violence initiative. Any rate, she lets me know that the police station in the village has some kind of initiative regarding homophobic harassment and assault. Even though I wasn’t injured and don’t intend to/can’t file an official complaint, I should call them anyway cos they keep track of this. Too many go unreported and I don’t want to add to that or to an illusion of safety.

So I call the police. The fellow working the desk doesn’t seem to have heard of any specific initiative at his station. He says I should call my local police station, tell them, they’ll do a report and submit it and it’ll be included in the official stats.

Grand total: :mad: :rolleyes: :confused: :dubious:

So I call the police in my neighbourhood. This snippy constable says that 1) why am I calling, since the metro station where this happened isn’t in their (my) neighbourhood; 2) they can’t do anything about it since I wasn’t injured; 3) chanting “kill the faggot, kill the faggot” wasn’t really a threat, it was just a “protest;” 4) they get insulted all the time and don’t complain about it; 5) what did I expect her to do about it.

Grand total: :mad: :rolleyes: :confused: :dubious: :smack:

I call the gay line back. She’s astonished the police wouldn’t take down any information about it. She grumbles about the lack of any anti-violence project any more. She promises to call some people and find out if there are any resources, and for me to call back at 8:30.

Okay. Some people chanted “kill the faggot” at me. It’s not the end of the world, relatively speaking; they didn’t shove me in front of a train. But still, what in the world are we doing in this city where we don’t even have anyone who keeps track of this sort of thing? What happened to the police’s vaunted commitment to liaising with the gay and lesbian community and keeping track of our concerns?

I don’t want to make a huge screaming deal about this, but I don’t want it to just vanish into the ether either, because that’s what makes it look like this sort of thing doesn’t happen anymore and everything’s just ticketty-boo here in Homoslovakia.

Well, now to call back the gay line and see what the nice lady has come up with. I’ll see what I get.

Ghod, I’m suprised that your brain doesn’t explode, taking all this crap. :frowning:

Homoslovakia. Heh.

May a straight fair skinned person from another country thank you for making the effort and pushing the issue?

BTW, I hope there was no-one else in the station, just ignoring this.

Good luck with this, matt.

Although it would have been cool if the smileys had made a pride rainbow. Maybe after you make a few more calls.

So, when is C-250 going to become real, honest-to-goodness law, again?

Who’s ass is in need of a fire under it?

Can I do anything to help?

Is that anywhere U-R-Gay?

Sorry to hear that matt. I’m hoping for the best.

Ah, matt, after seeing your picture in that newspaper article(you heart-breaker you), let me just say, they don’t know what they’re missing. If I wasn’t straight and female, I’d be wishing I could import you to Topeka.

I hope everything gets straightened out. Keep us informed, will you?

matt, you were WEARING a bag? Why, might I ask?

Sam

P.S.- sorry to hear you’re getting the run-around.

Well, if proportional representation is passed in Quebec, and if they call an early election, you know what to do, and I’m willing to make a contribution to help you do so…

Um, yeah… wearing it on my shoulder.

I had this image of you wearing a garbage bag as a raincoat - an “engineer’s raincoat,” I believe they call it. Or maybe wearing a potato sack, because your laundry hadn’t dried.

Must be a Quebecoisim, around here we would say you were carrying a bag. :slight_smile:

Having said that, I’m more disappointed in the cops than anything else. They should have taken your complaint, or directed you to the station that would. Technically, a crime was committed.

Thanks for the support, folks.

Calling back the station in the Village, I managed to dig up a hate crimes unit that supposedly deals with things like this. I have the name of an officer responsible whom I mean to call tomorrow. The gay line was very grateful for the help in digging this up.

Sorry, Matt. Let me add a :frowning: for you and a :wally for the asswipes that harrassed yoy. Good on you for following through on reporting this and not just giving up.

Unfortunately, I am not surprised by the attitude you got from the constable. Canadian cops are so uppity and officious.

That sucks. :frowning:

Let me tell youa hypothetical story, sort of…

The GF and I went to the Renaissance Fair yesterday, in costume. Had I been standing in the station waiting for a train I fully expect I’d (we’d?) have received the same “kill the fag, kill the fag” sort of reception.

I’ve been in a bar fight or two and don’t take well to catcalling (also, I’m not gay, but that’s irrelevant to the story :slight_smile: ). Had I been in your situation you’d probably have seen a news story about some freakishly attired individual kicking ass on a bunch of “innocent school-aged victims” in the metro station, or reports of my death at their hands.

I certainly don’t react well to death threats, regardles of whether I’m gay or not.

Good for you for reporting it! (Even if the local authorities won’t do anything about your complaint.)

You mean a knapsack or a backpack? THAT I can understand. Sorry. Didn’t understand the language is all. Sorry.

Sam

You’re not the only Canadian in this predicament!

Dammit, matt, that fucking sucks.

However, “Homoslovakia”…I LIKE.