Here’s an interesting little article from the Star that totally undercuts both the Viagra and the fashion industries:
Well that explains why using spit as lube then pounding away for 40 seconds hasn’t produced many orgasms in my ladyfriends.
Really, no huge surprises here, except maybe if you’ve never had sex. I will say though that for all the talk of condoms not being ‘spontaneous enough’ (as if the Pill, diaphragms, Nuvaring, the sponge, Depo are…), to me safe sex and clean bills of health are an aphrodisiac.
I think it takes equal parts physical and mental, which is why they say Viagra won’t help you if you’re not turned on to begin with.
This isn’t really a shocker…
At least in my experience, you don’t really get to the great sex until at least a month or so after you start doing it. I figure it’s because you don’t get the communication down or learn enough about your partner to really know what works for them.
I’d say that if you’re only engaging in one-night stands, then erect-ness, technique, size, et al. probably hold a higher role.