Hard-rocking, womanizing (allegedly) musicians... who are gay?

Okay, so a couple of us over in the “piano ballads suck” thread were flabbergasted to find out that Paul Stanley is apparently a flaming homo. I remember being similarly surprised to find that Rob Halford was gay (I know, the outfits should have been a dead giveaway, I just thought it was a heavy metal thing…).

Are there more surprises you’d like to share with us?

I’m not talking “shoulda knowns” like Freddie Mercury or Elton John. I’m talking about guys I just wouldn’t have guessed were gay, based on their public personas…

I wasn’t paying much attention to test my own gaydar, but I remember Ricky Martin being marketed as a ladies’ man - wasn’t he?

It was news to me too, EJ’s Girl.
Let’s see, who else did I have a crush on… How about Stephen Pearcy of Ratt? Straight? (Not that I’m still interested, Stephen!)

I’m looking for a cite, but with trepidation, as I’m at work, but ISTR that the word was that PS is bisexual. He has admitted to being “very in touch with his feminine side” harhar.

I also find Joan Jett’s changing of gender references in her cover of The Arrows’ I Love Rock n Roll to be…ironic?

Wikipedia has NO information about Paul Stanley being gay and I would think they would have it, if it was true.

Joan Jett is gay? Wiki doesn’t say that.
(Insert standard “not that there’s anything wrong with that” ;))

Paul Stanley’s married to a woman and has two kids, so, you know, maybe not so gay. Bi? Could be.

Joan Jett, on the other hand, is as queer as a three dollar bill. She’s out about it, sings about it, and her guitar is covered in stickers for bands like Tribe 8 and the leather pride flag and slogans like “dykes rule”.

And considering that he has slept with more women than I have ever even met

That could be a cover. But if it it is, it’s overkill.

Huh, I didn’t know that. But then, I only ever liked one or two of her songs. So I never really paid her that much attention.

Wiki isn’t a good source for that sort of thing.

And yeah, what I’ve seen/heard is that he’s bi.

Maybe not Wiki, but her video for her cover of The Sweet’s song AC/DCsure does…:wink:

…oh, and if you haven’t seen it, Carmen Electra plays the switch-hitter with JJ as her midnight rendevous…

…not that there’s anything wrong with that.

Udo Dirkschneider

Add me to the “Huh? Paul Stanley’s gay?” list. Joan Jett, though, I knew about, she’s been out for years. Rob Halford probably surprised some people, and others not at all.

Really? Never heard that one. Though he does sing an awful lot about boys in leather.

Could someone PLEASE provide some actual substantial proof of Paul Stanley being gay?

He frequently shows up in public wearing lots of make-up?

Really, who gives a shit? You seem to really need to know.

I don’t give a shit - I haven’t cared about KISS for 35 years, and I sure as heck don’t care about gender preferences. But this is news to me, and as someone with friends in the business I am surprised I didn’t know it. So count me in as curious, if only from a “I typically know the big rumors” standpoint…(sorry, that sounds like I think I am Mr. Insider - I clearly am not…but I normally know this kind of stuff, dammit! :D)

I am reaching out to a couple of friends - one guy is touring with…I think it is Don Dokken right now…

Don’t be pretentious. The band has a reputation as being one of the most promiscuous rock bands of all time, and in the world of rock music that is really saying a lot. So to hear the Paul Stanley is gay, is sort of…a gigantic fucking surprise? What’s the point of being so snide to me?

I want to know because I want to know.

Couldn’t find any cite confirming this (or even spreading rumors) but I do gotta say, Balls to the Wall is the most homoerotic metal album ever.

David Bowie and Pete Townshend have both admitted to being bisexual. So has Billie Joe Armstrong from Green Day.

Well paint me blue and call me a Smurf. I never in a million years would have guessed it. I have NO fucking gaydar. NONE.