Tony Randall was married to some reclusive woman no one ever saw, during WWII, I believe. After she died, he married a young chick very late in life and they had two kids, as has been mentioned. I only mention this again because I saw him on a talk show before he passed away and he was talking about being a father. And he said “it’s…just…wonderful!” and it was SO touching, the way he marvelled at this experience even at that late date, I swear he had a tear in his eye describing his late joy. I can’t be sure because I was sobbing into a hankie…
She has, depending on the era, identified as a lesbian at certain times in her life. She doesn’t identify as hetero in any case, even though she’s had some substantial relationships with men.
It’s interesting to read about how you straight guys’ gaydar has given you mixed results. Some of you have thought people were gay, then found out otherwise . . . when I would never have considered them gay in the first place.
As I’ve said all along: only gay people have reliable gaydar . . . and not even all of us.