I was speaking to my am class yesterday about the innate human instinct of fight or flight and one girl said she would never be put in a situation to fend for her own life because she lived in the city…
As naïve as that may sound I assure you she was quite serious. I began to explain to her that no one knows when they will have to make that split second decision. It could be the decision to duck when you are caught in the middle of a gang drive-by shooting, or the time when you are mugged and have to decide if you must submit and not fight, or knee the assailant in the nuts and run off…
Or on a more primal level, learning how to swim, so you don’t drown when you fall of the conie island board walk etc…etc…
The question does not lay in our instinctual fight or flight response, but more in fighting for your own life.
Have you ever had to fight for your own life, or fend off death?
Personally, I almost drown when I was 6, I was not more than 50 feet from shore, but I was alone, and on a dock I shouldnot have been on. I could not keep my head above water, and I nearly perished, but I kept kicking, and kicking until my loafer hit a rock, then I kicked some more, and eventually stood on a barnackle covered stone and wept. Walking the remainder of my ordeal back to my summer house, I could not understand what just happened. That event has haunted me, and I do believe I may have died had I not thrashed about and kicked my feet to stay afloat.
Ten years later at the ripe ol age of 16 I was in a serious dirt bike accident where I woke up in a pool of blood, alone again. I was riding on a farm where I should not have been in the middle of a very rural area. I rounded a corner where I could not see what was on the other side, and smacked right into a stone wall I thought paralelled the barn but in fact took a 90 degree turn into the side of it. I struck the wall going roughly 35 miles an hour I was thrown from my bike and hit my head. I woke up around duck with a softball size lump on my skull and a hole in my leg, where I could see my Femur. I was about a half mile from a house, and I straggled the entire way there, passing out occasionally… That day haunts me as well, and I have a scar on my thigh that reminds me to think ahead…and reminds me of the second time in my life I had to fend for my own life…
Anyone else??