I know people who have met there spouses on eharmony, jdate, and yahoo. I met my boyfriend on match.
If I may ask, did you have friends review your profile and your pictures to give honest feedback? Honestly, when I was on match I would reply to any guy who I thought made a reasonable effort to put together a nice descriptive profile that didn’t have inapproriate or bitter comments in it, the only other criteria was that we not be complete opposites, which made me wonder if he even read my profile. But despite this, I still cast out at least half the emails I got – there were so many guys who didn’t put up a picture, put up a mugshot-style webcam picture, or wrote a three sentence profile that said nothing more than they wanted a fun, attractive girl (no shit, all guys want that). To me these things say that they’re just “testing the waters” and aren’t really interested in investing time into the online dating process, whether or not its true that’s how it looks. And if someone’s not sure they want to do internet dating, its probably not going to turn into anything. Not to say that you’re in this category, its just that I really do believe in online dating, but the profile makes all the difference and I’m wondering if there’s a way to give yourself more of a multidimensional presense.
ETA: full disclosure, I’m pretty tradional when it comes to dating, I don’t claim to represent the views of all women.