[QUOTE=HeyHomie;11708527
Mrs. Homie has reluctantly agreed to see Dr. Albracht about her hearing difficulty. She fears that she’s going to wind up with a hearing aid, which, at 35, she believes she’s too young for. I contend that a hearing aid is a last resort to be used only after other methods of intervention have failed.[/QUOTE]
Pfft, I got mine at age 5. You’re never too young for 'em. 
Actually, they’ve got some really nice stuff out there but it depends on the level of hearing loss, everything from BTE (behind the ear) aids, In the canal ones, CIC (Completely in the Canal- which is what I have); and spiffy things like Digital hearing aids, that can have filters, phone settings, loud concert/ bass settings, protective settings to prevent hearing damage from loud sounds, and all sorts of other gadgets out there. Really the whole field has seemed to taken off in the last 10 years or so, and it’s def. getting better all the time. I didn’t like my hearing aids growing up as a kid, but after middle school it’s always been fine with me, and I’ve never really questioned them, they’re just a part of life and rarely stigmatized. But of course Everyone’s Mileage Varies, but a lot of it is self perception and how you feel about them. I know people who’ve gotten crazy colored Aids because they wanted to match them to earrings or clothes, and I’ve known others (like myself) who prefer them to be more discrete and very not noticeable- even with my hair short, it’s pretty hard to see 'em- though again it depends on the level of loss, the price, and the user themselves what features and such they want.
I’d say find a good audiologist and build a good relationship with them, and after a while, you’ll start to see the pros and cons of each Aid and you can make an informed decision.
I remember I HATED getting glasses more than my hearing aids, and I got glasses at age 20 and felt like such a weirdo, and that people would mock me and all sorts of silly things- because people are more likely to see GLASSES than my hearing aids.
And in the end, it was worth it, most of it was just self perception and biases.
Best of luck though with finding a good audiologist and hopefully she’ll get a nice pair for herself.
(PS: In my mind, I’ve always considered Cochlear implants as more of the “last resort”- as it’s an option available but (when I last read, which has been a while) I believe the surgery required cutting the actual nerves- so if you aren’t completely deaf before you get the surgery, the operation will first do that before they add in the implants. That’s why in my case, a Hearing Aid will continue to do the trick because I’m able to use a smaller Aid, and I still have some natural hearing ability currently. But since I’ve developed my language skills and such, should I ever go nearly deaf or so- my Audi has pointed out it’s a possible route of last resorts).
So yeah- Hearing aids are not the end all, be all, last resort. They’re just another tool to help you live your life, and make it just a little bit easier for us. 
-R