Tonight on Law & Order: SVU, a guy had a tattoo on his forearm. They were Hebrew letters, and my knowledge of Hebrew is minimal. But the letters looked to me like (from right to left) samech, bet, bet, dalet. I don’t know how to post in the Hebrew alphabet here.
Anyone have a clue want that might mean? Or maybe someone saw it, too… someone who actually reads Hebrew?
Sorry, forgot to include the pronunciation.
Soh-Koh-Noh (each syllable ryhming with ha or Ma)
Right after SVU I googled hebrew tattoo SVU and saw your question.
Lots of tribes had/have mourning scarification. And mourning tattooing. People have beliefs, do things connected to those beliefs. Certainly older than sending flowers and deli platters.
We still tear our clothes, symbolically anyway, in Judaism.
And the rituals of mourning would be based on things that people might do who were out of their heads with grief. People might scream, moan, tear their hair, tear their clothing, dress plainly, refuse to go to entertainments, cut themselves, commit suicide. One purpose the rituals serve is to define a proper middle ground. If you’ve done A, B, and C, then you’ve shown that you valued the person who died. And if you feel like doing D, E, and F, friends and neighbors can say, no, you’ve done enough, all that one could expect.
It’s not supposed to be repaired, if the rip was made for the mourning ritual. Also, at least in Orthodox practice, the rip is specifically made not on a seam.