In the Monty Hall problem, the benefit of switching is that you got to pick the BEST OF two choices, the best of the two other doors. The host as eliminated a goat when you switch doors. The probably that the host was choosing between two goats is only 1/3, which is the odds of you losing when you switch, so you chance of winning by switching is 2/3.
There is no host switching the other child. Its the same child. There is no information gained by interactions with the first child. Names aren’t telling us anything about gender.
No, if a girl answers the door, (B,B), and (B,G) are rules out, order matters.
also you can tell by symmetry that 2/3 is wrong. What if we are told a girl does NOT answer the door, what is the gender of the person answering the door ? Answering the door doesn’t relate to gender, so there is no bias… So how could the flipping of the situation (considering who opens the door vs who does not open the door … both a 50 ,50 split… give a different result ? We often do this flipping, its far easier to flip to considering losing and decide that winning is 100% minus chance of losing… etc
In probability we do distinguish between combinations and permutations, one of which order matters, the other doesn’t. combinations, order matter. You have a combination lock, you need 123… 321 won’t work. Lotto eg pick 6 numbers out of 1 - 50 , its permutations, they don’t know the order you picked. The results they tell you are given in ascending order…