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I’m very Mac-centric so I don’t know much about Parallels or about Windows settings. Somehow it’s all my fault 
(Well, OK, she isn’t saying that but she’s very discernably not happy and I feel responsible somehow)
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I use Parallels to run Windows XP on a Mac. I’ll offer what advice I can based on the configuration that works for me. Start Parallels on the Mac, open the Windows virtual machine (VM) that she created, but DON’T start the VM yet.
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a) The Parallels environment seems to zip along just fine except for the networking. While Mac browsers and email programs are working fine, the Windows equivs are too slow to use. By “slow” I strictly mean the networking speed. Pages don’t load in Win Firefox or IE; connections to the SMTP and POP servers time out and email can’t be downloaded or sent. Anyone with Parallels experience give me some tips on what might be causing the problem here?
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I’ve found the networking speed to be pretty good. Are you saying she can’t connect to the Internet from Parallels at all? Check the network settings for the VM (Assuming she’s only got one network adapter configured, click on the **Edit ** menu, then select Network adapter 1 from the list on the left). What network emulation is selected? If **Shared networking ** is not selected, select it now. This will allow Parallels to use the Mac’s network connection in the VM.
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b) Icons on the Windows Desktop: As Parallels modifies the window size (full screen, windowed mode, etc), the Desktop icons keep repositioning themselves willy-nilly. Is there perhaps a PC freeware or shareware app that remembers the positions of icons and returns them there after there’s been an unintended repositioning?
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I’m not aware of a way to keep this from happening entirely, but you can change the Windows settings to minimize it. Start the VM. On the Windows desktop, right-click, select Arrange Icons By, and make sure that **Auto Arrange ** is un-checked. When you resize the Parallels desktop the icons will stay put (the exception is icons that would have been off the desktop after resizing - they will be moved so they remain on the desktop).
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c) When she had a PC, we both printed to an HP inkjet printer, she being connected via parallel cable and me on my Mac via USB. I bought a USB-to-Parallel converter, and her Mac sees the printer when connected in that fashion, but will not print to it. When I hook her up via regular USB, she can print fine. “Printer sharing” does not work. Or at least I can’t get it to work. (Our network connections are to a hub which is hooked to a DSL modem).
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I use a network printer, so I don’t have much advice here. If she can print from Parallels with the USB cable, just give her her own USB cable and go with that (I may be able to test this from my own system later; if so, I’ll be back with advice).