I’m a curly-haired female…and I love it. It’s so pretty. But it is damn frustrating…
My hair has decided that it will no longer be nice smooth curls, but frizz-city. I’ve tried mousse (recommended by my stylist) but it’s not working too well. Even when I wrap my fingers around the curls to “define” them, it doesn’t work. I end up with stiff frizzies that look like they’re running away from the well-behaved curls.
I use Frizz-ease as well. For my hair, it’s essential that I put it on my hair while it is quite wet(I used to be able to use it damp, but my hair changed, I suppose), then either blow-dry or let it dry naturally. Either way, I get great curls.
I use Pantene Hydrating Curls shampoo and conditioner. Then I brush out the snarls and let my hair air dry. It’s a little expensive, but unless you have a lot of hair, it’ll last a long time.
I use L’Oreal curl defining spray and L’Oreal curl shaping mousse. The combination of the two calms down my frizz (and believe me - I have a lot!). You might also try a type of wax pomeade. My hairdresser says if you’re going to go the pomeade route, don’t get anything with water in it - water will make your frizz worse.
Thanks ShibbOleth, but I blow dry my hair straight. And I know you’re going to make up some quirky comment on “blowing” my hair straight, so I don’t even want to go there.
As do I. However, I have long hair, so I tend to go through it quickly. I decided to try Physique’s curl defining stuff once, and it is not nearly as good. I think I’ll stick with Pantene, which is the best thing I’ve found since I stopped straightening my hair instead. I like it wavey now…fortunately it don’t curl quite enough to frizz, but I think it might were it shorter.
Leave-ins and creams are always good. I’ve had success with Sebastian Potion 9 and Rusk Wired, but both of them might be too heavy if your hair isn’t coarse like mine. A tiny amount of jojoba oil helps too.
The advice I usually hear regarding pomades is that water-based pomades are easier to wash out and don’t make your hair greasy like wax- or oil-based pomades. Aveda makes a highly regarded anti-humecant pomade that keeps moisture out of hair if that’s your goal. I’ve tried many products and I believe that salon products are usually worth the extra money.
I’ve found that it helps a lot to air dry hair from when it’s dripping wet, if you have the time to do so. The most violent action I’d take with a towel is to pat the moisture out of my hair; anything else disturbs the curl formation.
I have very thick, very coarse medium-short curly hair. This is what I do in the morning:
Wash with Artec Textureline Smoothing Shampoo, condition with Smoothing Conditioner
Squeeze the water out with my hand
Spread ~3 mL of Rusk Wired throughout, particularly to the ends
Spread ~3 mL of Dep moisturising gel throughout, particularly to the roots
Shake head vigorously to separate curls
Shape with fingers. I usually tuck it behind my ears, but if you’re a girl you can get away with being more expressive.
Then I let it air dry, even if it’s -20 Celcius outside and I have to walk to class.