magellan01:
Her very first response to me was rude. And I hadn’t even addressed her. And then she accused me of weaseling, which I did not do in the least. At that point, she deserved what she got. And more. And the fact that Marley came in and mishandled things (IMO) didn’t help. Inadvertently, his moderating inflamed the situation instead of calming it.
Time to “wake the fuck up” that a U.S. citizen child cannot petition for a green card for his/her parents until he/she turns 21. Which is a rather long-term plan, to say the very least, especially given that parents of U.S. citizens are still subject to significant bars to immigrating legally if they have been unlawfully present in the U.S., even after the immediate relative petition is approved.
It is entirely possible for reasonable people to differ regarding what a reasonable U.S. immigration policy might look like, but I am really tired of the old “anchor baby” canard.
Eva Luna
This? I don’t see how it was rude. She did use the word “fuck,” yes, but she was quoting back your own words at you. Other than that, she expressed herself more or less politely. I’m really not seeing why this is anything to get upset about.
Thanks, Spectre !