Like so much in this world (or the Nether) doing the right thing is wrong and doing the wrong thing is way you must do things to make it work.
My son got into PVP via HiPixel (Minecraft multi-player server) and wanted me to join him. I tried it out in a PvP and was getting slaughtered by a player who got a gold sword before I could get anything. After getting my 3rd whack I was kicked and put on a 30 day suspension for having an unfair advantage over other players (Hacking), though I wasn’t. I suspect that other player was and in such a way that caused me to get the suspension.
So I got some alt accounts, log in via cellular which changes my IP often (as they seem to look for certain IP’s that use hacks), and now play with a hack client running. Life is good and I can thank their anti-hack into making me a HiPixel hacker player.