I know I’ve told this to some of you either in person or in e-mail, and I’ve alluded to it several times in threads. For the benefit of the two or three of you who aren’t dedicating your lives to following my life, here’s what’s going on:
My husband had been very unhappy in his job for most of the last three years. Changes in management and corporate philosophy didn’t sit well with him, and he knew he had nowhere to go within the company. He’d been seeking another job for the last 18 months with mixed results. He got offers, but in places like California, Texas, Wisconsin, Tennessee, Venezuela – places where I couldn’t work. (I’m a Dept of the Navy employee, 8 years from retirement – too late to start over) Our dream has been to return to southern Maryland so when we retire, we have the Chesapeake Bay right there.
Last November, he was contacted by a company here in Jax who were looking for a new GM for their plant in Baltimore. Steve had several interviews with them. Then wanted him. They were in the process of restructuring that particular business division, but once the parent company blessed things, he would be hired. Then the steel tariffs went into effect. The plant in Baltimore lost a huge market share. Its future was in doubt. Steve’s job no longer existed.
So we were resigned to him sticking it out here, continuing to look, knowing that in 2 years when our Perfect Child[sup]TM[/sup] graduates from high school, we would sell the house and I’d transfer to NAS Patuxent River. We already own some property there where we intend to build. We have a goal, and we’d do what we must to achieve it.
Mid-May or so, he got a call from another company – which also happens to have a plant in Jax and Balto. In the course of 2 weeks, he had 4 interviews, two on the phone, two in person. Then he had a plant tour and interview in Baltimore (coincidentally, the same time as GingerDope) Before we left, he had accepted an offer. Downside – we’ll be apart until we get the kid out of school. So I’m staying in Jax with her and the doggies, and he’s going to live on our boat near the Inner Harbor.
Hubby, FIL, and kid left on June 28 to take Wandering Star north. I wanted to go, but if I did, I’d have used up most of my vacation for the year and I’d not see him again until maybe Thanksgiving. So they’re en route and I’m home alone with the idiot doggies. So far, they’ve made part of the passage offshore and part up the ditch (that’s the Intracoastal Waterway for you non-sailors) He’d have done most of it offshore, but neither FIL nor daughter have the experience to stand watches thru the night.
They should make it to Beaufort, SC tonight – at least that’s his plan. He’s supposed to start work on July 15, sooner if he gets there sooner. When he and his folks brought the boat down here 3 years ago, it took them 17 days, but they spent 2 of them sitting in Deltaville, VA because of weather. And they had several short days because MIL wasn’t feeling well.
I’ll be driving up there with a friend to deliver Steve’s car when he arrives, and I’ll bring FIL and the kid home with me. If I can find someone to help me load the motorcycle on the trailer, I’ll drag that sucker up too. If not, he’ll get it when he comes down to visit me sometime.
So, the next 23 months will put a lot of miles on the kid’s Beetle – it gets LOTS better mileage than my Aerostar. I’ll be taking vacation days in conjunction with 3-day weekends where possible, and once Steve has some vacation time available, he’ll come down here. We’re planning to see each other at least monthly. I’m hoping they’ll need him to do stuff at the Jax plant too, so he’ll be able to come here on the company dime.
I’ll post their progress up the coast – it’ll save me from writing multiple e-mails about it. And I’ll accept all sympathy and commiseration. Chocolate too. Help around the house – yard work – car repairs – all that manly stuff! I lived alone for almost 10 years and I really enjoyed it. Steve and I have been married over 18 years – I’ve enjoyed that more. It’s going to be a rough time ahead. We’re focusing on the goal. We’re trying to be adult about this. We’re going to get thru it just fine, but in the meantime, there’s gonna be a lotta whining in FairyChatLand!
Yeah, like that’s news…