You need someone at the side door to grab 'em off the street.
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Yeup. Most people I know don’t know how to drive. In my household with 4 adults, only know how to drive and I ain’t one of them. Born in The Bronx, raised my kids in Brooklyn.
So you’d need a driver, a thug and a disabled man. And a woman who digs all that stuff. 
You beat me to this ! I was going to say that too LOL!
To OP I really don’t see why it would be anymore embarrassing having a woman doing the driving than a woman having a man doing the driving today .
Find a nice woman with a seizure disorder. As long as the embarrassment of that doesn’t exceed the embarrassment of what courting someone who has a DL would, you should be ok.
It’s easier to use chocolate to lure her into the van. Also cheaper than hiring a thug.
San Francisco (but avoid the ones in sensible shoes).
Seriously, not having a drivers license has become a point of pride among urban hipsters. Recent college graduates have a crushing debt burden and choose to congregate in large cities where rents can be $4000/month and parking is difficult and expensive. They simply can’t afford cars.
Rather than feel sorry for themselves, they rationalize their situations and call themselves progressive and deride drivers as evil people who should move to the suburbs.
So, if you don’t mind dating a broke recent college graduate making a six-figure salary, go for it.
Bring your umbrella.
Thanks! My plan is getting stronger by the minute!
What if the woman in question is not in your taste in terms of looks or personality? Would you date them just because they don’t have a drivers license?
Why don’t you have a DL? And yes there is no rule that states you can’t date women who drive, just as non college graduates can date those with Phds, homeowners can date renters,etc.
I know what all those words mean individually, but what so they mean in that specific order?
You have a point. As to why I don’t have a driver’s license, I have tried and failed the written test about 8 times already.
California has a State ID card. Looks like a license except for the label and is just as valid as a DL for identification.
Is there a lifetime limit? There are people that have taken the Bar exam dozens of times and now are fully qualified lawyers. Do you know what the issue is? Most written driver’s license tests in the U.S. aren’t that difficult. You just study a book, pass the test and then forget much of it. You may or may not eventually be a great driver but giving up on having a license is going to affect you in many more ways than just dating. It is practically a full-fledged disability in many places, especially California. It will likely screw up your job and travel prospects at some point as well.
I suggest you just study harder and/or find a good driving tutor or a public driving course to help you. You should be able to pass if you try harder. This isn’t the UK. I know plenty of people that are borderline retards that have driven around legally and freely before they even dropped out of high school. I don’t know much about you but at least you can read and write coherent sentences. That isn’t true for millions of other people happily zipping along in their ride on roads all across America.
Ambivalid’s little black book?
Not having cars doesn’t mean they don’t have drivers licenses.
Why would they deliberately give up the option to drive a car? That makes no sense.
Getting a driver’s license entails a fair bit of time and expense. Not an onerous amount, but significantly more than just getting an ID card. Depending on how far back their disinterest in cars goes, they may never have learned to drive in the first place.
Back in the day, we chomped at the bit to get our drivers licenses ASAP. But at my kids’ high school, parents are literally begging their kids to get their license to get them off the chauffeuring hook.
Hmm. I’ve passed the written driver’s exam at least ten times, but not the practical. And now my eyesight doesn’t qualify. So I’m a gal who meets your preferences, but I’m married. But, uh, wouldn’t you rather be with someone who can drive? I mean, I’d pretty much be screwed if my partner couldn’t shlep me around from time to time.
Seriously though, one has to wonder if a woman will want to date a man so insecure, he needs a woman whom also does not drive, like him.
I’d date a man without a car or license if he seemed nice enough. A guy so insecure he’s too freaked out to approach a woman with a ride? Nope. I’m giving that guy a pass.