Well, statistically, having alcohol at home puts you at even more danger, especially when you consider the risk that you will harm yourself by overconsumption. And plenty of people actually enjoy owning guns, as a hobby, just like plenty of people actually enjoy alcohol.
Of course, if you are a careful gun owner, or a moderate drinker, you’re in little danger. Statistically, there are a only small number of careless gun owners and immoderate drinkers who cause the problems. But since you apparently see no reason to be sympathetic and understanding to the careful gun owners, I don’t know why you are sympathetic to the moderate drinkers.
You are assuming that every gun owner is a crazed, careless lunatic who is stupidly compromising his safety, while only a small fraction of alcohol consumers are. This is not representative of reality. In truth, only a small fraction of either group poses a risk to anyone. Since the popular consensus (at least on this board) is that guns need stricter regulation anyway, stricter alcohol regulation seems rational to me.
I own a gun and I drink. I almost never drink to excess and I don’t drink and drive, ever. Similarly, I keep the gun in a locked container and the ammunition on either side of the house, and I would not use it for self-defense. I bought it because I’m an engineer and I like mechanical things and I thought it would be fun to learn to use, clean, etc. I can assure you I did not buy it intending to kill anyone.
If some situation came up in which I had to use my gun in self-defense, I trust myself to be careful enough not to shoot an innocent person. Just like I trust myself not to abuse alcohol and endanger anyone (despite the fact that alcohol, by it’s very nature, harms your ability to make rational judgements).
I’ve never said it’s a perfect analogy. I think it is obvious that the two issues are quite similar, albeit not identical. But I am not willing to concede this point. Guns are capable of killing people, but most people do not buy guns planning to use them to kill people. Just as alcohol is capable of getting you drunk enough to accidentally run over a pedestrian, and the whole point of it is that it alters your mood/judgement/mental state/etc., but most people do not buy alcohol planning for that to happen.
For self-defense purposes, the sight of a gun is often enough to scare away a criminal. Only a suicidal criminal would do something that provokes an armed person to shoot them, as opposed to just retreating.