I see that several people have come into this thread basically so they can post “I hate Disney.” Since the thread title is “How did Disney emotionally devastate you,” I don’t quite get that. Then again, I know that for a lot of folks out there (and apparently in here too) everything Disney ever made is by definition HORRIBLE, and I guess it is of critical importance to say so in any thread that touches on Disney in any way.
(For the record, I know some people think Disney is the Best Thing Ever, and I don’t get that either. But they don’t seem to have posted in this thread–yet–so I’m not so concerned with that just now.)
Because I like to nitpick this: it’s worth remembering that for many of the Disney movies based on “classic” fairy tales (notably Sleeping Beauty, Snow White, Cinderella, Tangled) there is no single “genuine” or “original” version. The Grimm brothers, who are often the main sources for these tales, did not worry overmuch about authenticity but rather combined folk elements into something they liked. They would not have passed Folklore 101.
This means that there is nothing inherently more authentic about the Grimm Snow White, say, than about the Disney Snow White–they’re both someone’s version of a tale told in many different ways by many different people over the years. It’s fine to prefer one to the other, but we are treading into tricky waters when we dis Disney for creating something that doesn’t match the Grimm version, given that the Grimm version likely won’t have matched the brothers’ own original sources.
And along the same lines, which is the “authentic” Cinderella tale or Sleeping Beauty version–the one told by the Grimms, or the one told by Charles Perrault? They’re not the same…
It’s also worth noting that many people, in the US at least, don’t actually remember the details of the Grimm/Perrault stories very well. Or they think they remember but get it wrong. The Queen in the Grimms’ Snow White does not in fact dance on red-hot coals. She is instead forced to put on iron slippers that have been heated up in the fire. Even Grimmer.
On topic: Like the OP, I find “Baby Mine” very moving, and ocasionally “emotionally devastating”–there’s the moment when the little guy starts crying helplessly that can absolutely get me when I’m in the right mood. To the OP: Sounds awful; I’m really sorry.