I mean, it seems like a lion’s share of rap music is chock full of misogyny. Yet, this very music is adored by women who hate misogyny.
Please take me at my word when I tell you, I don’t pass judgement on women who like this type of music, I’m just curious how they make the disconnect between the music and misogyny.
In my personal experience… there’s a certain type of person (either male or female) who over-identifies with underdogs and will make excuses for this kind of stuff to the bitter end, if it’s supposed to be the voice of a disadvantaged community. They think it’s fighting the good fight, I guess.
I have heard quite a bit of silliness from women about how (insert awful lyric) “is actually making a feminist statement if you think about it, because…” (insert convoluted argument)
The same reason people like mob movies or horror movies. It’s not real, it’s entertainment. There’s something in it that appeals to you on some level but nothing you’d want to live with.
Yeah, I’m a rock fan and not a rap fan at all, but I can’t pretend that rock music isn’t often extremely sexist. At their worst both genres are pretty bad…but both also have many examples of songs that aren’t sexist at all and some that even criticize sexism.