I have 3 (I’m so great at keeping friends, eh?) Let’s see, in chronological order…
1.) Friend K and I were best friends in the 2nd and 3rd grade, we did everything together. She was so cool, I worshiped her. She moved away and even though it was just the next city over, it was too tough trying to maintain the friendship. I was always the one calling her. Around the 6th grade, at her birthday party, I realized that we were just too different (she was desperately trying to become a “popular”) and it was just too hard to maintain as we were going to different middle schools. I made the concious decision to let her drift away. Now that I think about it, not once after that did she ever call me.
Anyways, cut to high school. I found out that she had transferred into my school (after going through two others already). I was thinking of getting in touch with her when my mutual friend told me “Yeah, she asked me about you. She asked me if you were still a geek.”
I never thought that she saw me like that; I was pretty surprised. Excuse me if I had goals, and wanted to get high grades to go to a college and get the hell out of the area. Needless to say, I lost my desire to say hi to her pretty quickly after that. Funny thing is that I recently got a Myspace friend request from her. I doubt I’ll reply back anytime soon; I don’t know if I could match her high life of selling “grillz”. :rolleyes:
2.) Friend L just went nuts by the end of senior year. New, strange friends and new, strange behavior. I won’t even go into prom night. Our small circle of best friends and I were invited to her graduation party. Seeing as my best friend M(I would consider L my 2nd or 3rd at the time) was out of the country at the time, I was wary of L’s new and unpredictible behavior, and that I had just discovered the joy of working a minimum wage job for long hours, I just didn’t have the energy to put up with her (no doubt I would be the odd one out at her party). Cut to two weeks later. I got a random comment on my Livejournal. I could tell that it was from her half-wit boyfriend just by the way it was written. It ranted on and on about how terrible M, J, and I were by missing her party, how dare I call myself a decent human being, blah blah blah…I was entertained by the fact that 1.) It was directed towards M, who was still out of the country and 2.) L had made her boyfriend do the dirty work for her. It blew up into a spectacular war on my blog. I couldn’t believe how L had changed so quickly, and how missing her party (even when I knew that when she was around her “new friends”, she wouldn’t give me the time of day) was such a traumatic deal to her. I can’t say that I miss this psycho much.
3.) Friend J was part of my close circle of friends in high school. This one was probably the cleanest cut, but still over something stupid. It had been a couple years since I last hung out with J. She was working a lot, not going to school like the rest of us, and had a fiance that I hadn’t even been introducted to. I was having a going away party with a small group of friends. I invited M and her significant other (whom I was friends with) and S and his girlfriend (while I didn’t know her much, I had at least been introduced). I asked J to come. I don’t know if this would be a faux pas or not, but I didn’t invite her boyfriend. I honestly didn’t know J much anymore, let alone the fiance that I had never been introduced to. I thought nothing of it, but apparently J was very offended by this and chose not to come based on that. I had even apologized for not thinking about it when I realized her viewpoint on the matter, but apparently it was too late.