You know those friends who have been with you for awhile, the guys who’d never betray you, who offer a sympathetic ear when you have a problem, who you’ve helped through their tribulations, who have exchanged their darkest secrets with you, and who you would never betray?
Yeah, so two of those guys just ditched me. Douchebags just disappeared. One, after I got my phone fixed, left a message saying he wanted to talk…then blocked me from seeing his status updates on Facebook (I wasn’t even commenting on them!) and just pretended not to be getting my calls/emails. Other guy said he wanted to talk and then, after not calling when he promised, wouldn’t respond to my attempts to contact him (and I know he wasn’t super-duper busy, he was on Facebook posting stuff.). No texts, no nothing. Why? Did we have an argument? No. Was I doing anything worthy of ending a friendship over? No. But hey, why not just fucking disappear…
This type of things has happened to me since frigging high school. I don’t mind if somebody wants their space – and I understand some folks aren’t good at long-distance relationship – but fucking disappearing after months of staying in touch, even still being among my best friends? What the hell? One guy – after I thought maybe he was trying to dissolve our friendship and he said we were still friends – tried disappearing on me, and then when I sent him a few messages over the next few weeks asking him what was up…he said he couldn’t be friends with me anymore as long as I didn’t believe the Torah was entirely written by Moses and I had friends with similar beliefs. But hey…At least he, upon confrontation, gave a reason.
I pit all the fake friends out there who think it’s okay to just end important long-lasting relationships without notice. I spit at you for your callousness and apathy to real people.