wikipedia article on Mahr - Wikipedia suggests that Islamic marriage is a contract between man and woman where the wife gets a dowry from the husband as a security against arbitrary divorce. No parental consent or payment to the wife’s father is mentioned. On the other hand, I recall reading a story along the lines of some father who got tired of waiting for an affluent suitor for his daughter and gave her in marriage to an employed guy who was too poor to make some sort of traditional payment (cannot remember further details).
So the above raises the question in my mind, why is the father an issue in the first place? Shouldn’t the adult woman be able to make her own marriage decisions and negotiate her own dowry? Or does the modern shariah require father’s permission and allow him to charge for it? If so, does this extend just to the first marriage or for the entirety of woman’s life? What happens if the father is dead?