When I first had to really use absolute value functions and greater than/less than equations in analysis I got all tripped up, too. I had breezed through math all throughout school until I hit pre-calc (math analysis we called it, but whatever, same dealie) and then WHAMMO it was time to apply everything I thought I had been learning all this time. But wasn’t.
I wish I remember what I did, because my quarter and final grades took a very nice path: F, D, mid-term:D, B, A, final: A. So I taught myself the math at some point in there. Went on to get a 98% in calc I and II the next year. Good stuff.
I do remember just working out the problems, 1-whatever was in the book and forget about the assignment. I mean, whatever the assignment was, it was in there somewhere, I just turned it all in. And I went back to work over problems from topics we had already covered and I screwed up. Just kept doing them, looking at the examples at first and trying to handle the other problems without looking at them as time went on.
IMHO, after algebra two and trig, math gets conceptual really quick. Sure, there are still “formulas” and such, but they aren’t just plug and play anymore, you have to be able to manipulate equations to get them to do anything, and you have to sort of understand why you’re manipulating them the way you do. And I found that when I did understand what I was doing, knowing any formulas was sort of a moot point. The equations started solving themselves.
So I never used any of those “teach yourself math” books that I’ve seen at borders. The math books I had worked well enough, but it was definitely a labor of love. And it also helped me understand how to read math books, too, which I later applied to teaching myself first order linear differential equations just for fun.
Yeah, I’m sick.
So, long story short, if you really do like math but just can’t seem to do it, maybe it is your methodology that’s all wrong. A teacher can only do so much, IMO. From there on out it is you that has to do the rest.
Has anyone else any experience with these “teach yourself calculus” books or anything? I’ve honestly never looked at them, but if they are anything like the other teach yourself books they seem to gloss over important points that only a textbook can really offer (though on its terms, ugh!).