I’m sure that in all of humanity’s colorful history such a thing has happened, but I don’t think that’s really relevant. I doubt boors need much encouragement, but if they do then I think the fact that “Tee hee, come join us!” scenarios are common in porn has more to do with it than anything that’s ever happened in reality.
Never a true lesbian, it has always happened at bars or parties where bi women were into cocaine. I suspect they were looking for free coke. I don’t do coke.
Well, that’s a very different situation, isn’t it? Experimental women willing to have sex for cocaine. It hardly means that lots of lesbians are going out asking men to watch them, in numbers greater than men asking the same of lesbians. That does happen quite a lot at bars and online. Online, it’s almost inevitable.
After I came out, I was asked to come home with women at clubs, many of them lesbian, more times than I can honestly remember. I was invited into lesbian threesomes many times, at least 2 lesbian foursomes, and could have joined a lesbian fivesome but…ew, no. There was a time when just about every time I came back from dancing there was a piece of paper with a phone number and/or a free drink by my purse.
It turns out some people are “intrigued” by an intersex transwoman who dresses slutty and dances great. I think it’s awesome and somewhat surreal at the same time.
I’ve been asked to go home with men more times than I can count too, or man/woman couples, and once a transman/woman couple. And of course many, many, many t-girls and crossdressers.
Since transition nearly 2 years ago, I’ve had sexual escapades which would turn some people’s hair white, ones I won’t even post anonymously about. But I do not go home with strangers or casual acquaintances.
But you’re not a straight man. 
Has this become the general sexual anecdotes thread?
I hope not, but at the same time I think it’s got most of the on-topic responses it’s likely to get (for which I am appreciative, incidentally - it’s been most enlightening).
The “Tee hee, come join us” scenarios are common in porn precisely because they don’t often happen in real life. Nor do pizza deliverymen get invited to threeways, or mothers seduce their sons’ best friends. Porn is fantasy.
The point is nor am I a “typical” female or lesbian either. If me, who is no stunner, can have that many offers, then it’s possible straight men might too. It might be a matter simply of going to the right clubs and being around the right people and places.
I mean, where does a straight man meet a lot of lesbians, honestly? Very few straight men come to lesbian bars and hang out. They might do it once, or twice, but almost certainly not. I mean yeah there’s a few chasers at the clubs, but they are absolutely not interested in lesbians.
I suspect it might be just being part of “the scene” and being out enough. I used to go out to lesbian and t-girl clubs 2-3 nights a week every week. If you keep on that schedule, you’re going to have opportunities, especially if you prove by being a “regular” and by reputation that you’re not a stalker or creep. How many straight men go out to a lesbian club 2-3 nights a week every week? More than 0?
I mention I dress and dance well, but I’m no prize pig. Yet nonetheless, I can get the offers. I also get them from men as well, lots and lots of men.
My point is that it can happen, and my added point is that it might be a question of venue and persistence. I wasn’t sharing an anecdote for the purpose of sharing, I guess I was sort of talking out loud to give an example.
You’re not a typical female, but you’re not a man. Why would women asking a woman to have sex mean they do it to men too?
Straight men meet lesbians at regular bars, at parties, at gigs, at conventions, etc (also work, but people are more careful about what they say there). All sorts of places. Your sexuality comes up in social chit-chat fairly often (by references to dating, usually, not necessarily “I’m gay,”) especially if you’re coupled up, and if you have your partner with you then no words are even needed.
A straight man might not knowingly meet as many lesbians as a woman who goes to lesbian bars, but he will meet some.
More to the point, lesbians meet lots of straight men. So yes, there are, unfortunately many opportunities for men to be inappropriate towards lesbians. Not all men are, of course, though the proportion increases with alcohol. And it increases on the internet, too, as this thread shows.
I disagree but I have no idea how one would prove their respective points any further. Whatever the case, my point was not to share “general sexual anecdotes.”
Well, I do think lesbians have more to offer in way of anecdotes about how lesbians behave. That’s hardly a controversial point.
And I do think straight men come on to lesbians more than the other way round, your apparently highly-relevant experiences as a woman being approached by women notwithstanding. To be honest I find this a weird thing to have to argue about - that there are seriously people claiming the opposite.
I must add one small warning, “Do not touch two hot women while they are fully engaged in a sex act” they don’t want it and they don’t need it.
I must also add that there is just something about two women kissing each other that seems like sugar and spice … they know what pleases each other that’s for sure.
“Like jello,” I understand. “sopping wet hair,” not so much. Can you 'splain?
I realize it’s waaaay off topic on this thread, and it might even be out of place to say, but woman #4 I referenced above was adamant (almost to the point of yelling about it at me while we were in public) that this wasn’t true. “Just because they have their own equipment doesn’t mean they know what to do with mine,” were her exact words. For example, without going into too much graphic detail, there was a certain common sexual technique which she did not want partners doing to her, which other women greatly enjoyed and would insist on performing on her, even if she told them not to and even if she explained why. She didn’t think women were worse than men, just that neither were particularly good listeners and would either do to her what she thought she’d enjoy (and be wrong about it) or not try to please her at all. So, just a counterpoint to that.
I don’t know exactly why, but this pisses me off more than, “can I watch, dur hur”. No, women do NOT magically know what women like just because we share equipment. Believe me, the first time I made love to a woman, I was just as clumsy and inexperienced and terrible as any virgin boy. Women respond individually, what feels good to me might be annoying to another. I don’t have a secret map to the clitoris, and I don’t know any more about what to do with it than you do, because all women are not me. They’re people, and people are all complicated and messy and unique.
Well excuse me for trying to bring some truth into this discussion …
How did I know that you didn’t know what to do the first time just because your a woman?
All I know is that you latch on to that little thing near the top of the opening and tongue it by flicking it on one side only and wham she hits you in the head with her hands when she’s through lol
Okay I’m just kidding about hitting you in the head, but they sure do like to push you away when your through. Love those women with problems … love to solve them that is 