But you can only live your life on your own terms if you never encounter another human being for the rest of your life. What happens when another human moves to the same wilderness and builds a cabin near yours? What happens if he hunts on your hunting grounds? What are you going to do about it?
You could resolve the situation by going over to visit your new neighbor, and explain that this valley is your valley, and he has to leave. But what if he doesn’t agree? What if he says that no one owns the valley and you have to share? What if he says that he owns the valley now, and YOU have to leave?
How are you going to make him leave? Use force? What if he’s bigger and stronger and a faster shot? If you are morally justified in making him leave, why isn’t he morally justified in making you leave? What gives you the right to live in this particular place and not him?
In ancient times, before governments existed, the two of you would fight, and someone would either end up dead, and then the dispute is over, or one of you would run away. And the winner would own the valley until someone else came to challenge him. But one person on their own can be defeated easily by two or three or four people. And human beings are social creatures, and live in family groups. So rather than just you living alone, it would be you and your wife, and your kids, and your brothers and sisters, and their spouses and kids, and your cousins, and your parents and grandparents and aunts and uncles and such. So when one guy came by, you’d have backup. But he’d have backup too.
And so families organize themselves into clans. Your family is related to the family in the next valley, and you agree that if some neighboring family comes by, both families will help fight them off. Eventually all the families in the area have relationships, either friendly or unfriendly. And then some formal system of resolving disputes between families arises…say, the heads of the families meet regularly to arbitrate issues. And then what happens when two clans have disputes? Why, the clans can organize themselves into larger units.
And now we have governments. All arising from the simple fact that groups of people working together are stronger than individual people, and larger groups are stronger than small groups. And if you don’t belong to a group, then in a state of nature people can do whatever they like to you, because who will stop them? You? You need other people to agree to protect you from people who would otherwise rob and kill you. If nobody will help protect you then you’re in big trouble, because there are 6 billion other humans on this planet and only one of you, you’re outnumbered.
If you say that it isn’t fair that you have to live in constant fear of other people, well, what’s your solution? Those other people aren’t going away. And those other people aren’t tame, they can be pretty crabby and aggressive. So unless you’ve got some sort of mechanism to allow them to live side-by-side–like, say, a system of laws–there’s going to be violence.
So you don’t have to recognize the authority of governments. In reality there is no such thing as a “government”, only individual humans who act in particular ways. And one of the ways they act is to cooperate with each other and make agreements. So while you’re free to realize that the cops and soldiers and judges and politicians are just damn dirty apes no better than yourself, you also need to realize that they’re organized and violent, and if you piss them off they’ll fuck you up. And you’re just the same, because you can’t live alone on this planet. So you can chose to live as an isolated human without any community any time you like, but you have to realize that most other people aren’t going to play that game, and if you annoy them they’ll cooperate against you.
