I’m female, with interests in computer/video games, RPGs (video and pencil and paper), science fiction, and woodworking. So don’t rely solely on interests!
Yep, I check profiles myself.
Sometimes a screen name gives it away.
I even from time to time remember something the poster has said in a different thread that solved the minor mystery.
(Giraffe is a very tall man, is a good example. Very tall IIRC)
Most people guess Osip is a male name.
Asking, is also an easy less time consuming way.
Osip
I’m a female, 21 years old, 38-23-36, with long, gently curling auburn hair. My interests are long walks on the beach, pretty sunsets, intimate cuddling in front of a roaring log fire, water sports, and paddle games. Right now I’m wearing black lace panties and push-up brassiere, seamed charcoal-grey stockings with a garter belt, black patent-leather spiked-heel pumps, a red velvet choker, and a French Maid’s cap.
Hmmm … London_Calling posted the same question to an unrelated thread a few weeks ago, and I answered that I didn’t know how I did it, but I’d hardly ever been wrong. Since then, I’ve come to the sad conclusion that this is not true, and in the absence of other cues I’m wrong about half the time. I do have a pretty good memory for what people have said in the past, so if a poster has mentioned his or her sex once I’ll usually remember it forever.
Oddly enough, only a few people have ever mistaken me for a male, even though there are no obvious clues in my screen name or profile.
Alright, that sounds straight as the equation displays a man on top of a female. Missionary position? Okay, lets see, best way is to ask the person. Of course, ‘Ask The Gay Guy’ would indicate male/male. But most are male/female.
I don’t worry about it, generally. Why should I need to know? I’ll flirt with most anyone I find entertaining - gender isn’t a problem.
Of course, some posters mention it (either in their usernames or in conversation) - in those cases, it’s obviously pretty easy to tell if you can read.
Then again, I’ve been campaigning for gender-neutral personal pronouns for a couple of decades now. I quite often find need for one IRL, much less on the 'Net. I have hopes that widespread 'Net connections will someday win that war.
I’m not sure I agree with the chosen pronoun, but some good info on the subject.
You said ‘I’m female, with interests in computer/video games, RPGs (video and pencil and paper), science fiction, and woodworking. So don’t rely solely on interests.’
I meant that mainly men are interested in chess / computer games / roleplaying. Obviously you are a talented, interesting female, and we need more like you.
(I never like to tangle with moderators.)
Wait a minute! How do I know you’re female? After all your interests make it more likely that you’re male…(disappears up his own logical paradox)