How easy is it to end up homeless?

This obviously depends on where you live. I’m in the UK and though there are supports for homeless people, it’s easy to slip through the cracks and end up on the streets. I know if it weren’t for my parents, I’d be homeless as I’ve never worked before despite being in my 20s.

From talking to my American friends in college, it seems remarkably easy to end up homeless especially if you don’t have health insurance, don’t have a decent paying job, or get in trouble with the law.

I read that the Scandinavians have the best support and according to some, you have to try to end up on the streets.

Interestingly, do you personally know anyone who ended up homeless (either without a home but in a hostel or street homeless)?

I know people who are homeless because of drug addiction. When they are young they can sponge of of friends or fellow addicts for a place to stay. Often they end up in jail or prison and that gets them off the streets, but once they get out they are right back up to their previous behavior.

The older homeless addicts I have known have it even worse. Nobody wants them sleeping on their sofa. If they still have their addictions after say 50 years old then most likely they will die early due to lack of support. such as parents are dead or have disowned them. I’ve seen people inherit some money from their parents and just go on a drug use free for all. They may give up completely at some point and either commit crimes without caring and end up in jail or get careless and end up dying from an overdose.

Non-drug addicted homeless people are rarer but even more heart breaking. Losing a job and not having health insurance can be death sentence for many of them. Again, if their parents are gone its very tough on them. Once their savings have run out and are forced to live out of a car it tough to get back to be self supportive.

Ditto. Perhaps not even addiction, but a preference for taking drugs over working. They usually work just long enough to buy drugs, and if they have a little extra maybe get a hotel room and stay indoors for a day or two.

I think that is one of the definitions of addiction. The addiction becomes the first priority and everything thing you do revolves upon satisfy and feeding your addiction. Including putting on a false sense of normalcy so that you can further your addiction.

Sure, it’s an indication of addiction. Sometimes it’s just an allergy to work.

It really depends on your circumstances and support networks. In the USA there’s a lot of food available, but not much shelter (i.e. you probably won’t starve but it’s really hard to find housing, especially if you’re a single male). What few shelters there are often prioritize women & children (not saying that’s a bad thing) and/or only open during really bad weather.

If you don’t have friends and family, there aren’t many support services to get you back on the ground, whether shelter or job training. Very few employers will hire you if you don’t have good recent employment history and a mailing address, and show up unkempt, and don’t have reliable transportation, etc.

I don’t have a cite handy, but I heard the statistics show that most people who experience homeless do so on a temporary, transitory basis and eventually get out of it, but if you fall through the cracks for a longer period of time, it’s really hard to get out of it.

Several Dopers here have been (or may still be) houseless. I’m one of them, having been homeless in my 20s for about 1.5 months, but still having a car and friends & family who were willing to help. The government helped with food stamps, but otherwise didn’t really give a damn. Eventually got out of it because I happened to meet a lady, by chance during a volunteer event, who decided to give me a chance and offered me an unskilled landscaping job. From there I went onto a California-specific jobs training program, but that’s limited to people 25 and other. I was lucky. And I didn’t have a substance abuse problem.

A lot more folks fall through the cracks for various reasons, and substance abuse certainly makes it harder. It’s also a vicious cycle… when all you have left in your life is your addiction, you tend to feed it because it’s the only thing that brings you any sort of escape from the harsh reality of your existence. :frowning:

No personal experience, but my job involves interacting w/ many indigent people.

I’m regularly impressed at the amount and variety of assistance that is available to the indigent in many (not all) states. I think the greatest factor which results in individuals being homeless concerns the individual’s mental/emotional ability to seek assistance, and to comply with requirements.

Obviously, additional contributors include lack of resources - in terms of money, education, family/friends. But it is a vicious circle, as mental/emotional/personality issues can impair all of those factors.

I should clarify - I define “homeless” as living on the street/in one’s vehicle. Not sure if the OP means something else.

The types of assistance I suggest exists includes short- and long-term shelters, subsidized housing, assisted care facilities, etc. Re: the last, I’m regularly impressed at the frequency with which indigent individuals are housed in nursing homes," for little evident reason other than their indigency. Often happens after a brief hospitalization - such as for an overdose/detox, or suicidal ideation, when the patient has no residence to be discharged to. Often impresses me as an awfully pricy way to handle such situations.

That’s a lazy analysis. The reality of houselessness is more nuanced than that, especially after COVID-19, when mass unemployment meets mass evictions meets the GOP’s steadfast disregard for American lives and livelihoods.

Does this have to do with deinstitutionalization? I haven’t much looked into it.

In the US it really depends on what state you live in as tenant laws tend to vary.

Generally the path to “homeless” consists of several steps. The first is not paying your rent or mortgage (whether by choice or inability to produce the necessary funds). After some period of time and several angry letters, your bank or landlord will begin eviction proceedings. This is a legal process that can often take months. Once the court rules to evict you, you are then required to vacate the premise. If you refuse, at some point the sheriff’s office will come and physically remove you.

If you are a jobless drug addict with a criminal record, yeah, that makes it a lot easier to begin the path that leads to eviction and subsequent homelessness. It also makes it a lot more difficult for you to find a job, obtain a mortgage or even find a landlord who will rent to you. I would also imagine that courts would be a lot less sympathetic to a drug addict than someone like a single working mother who lost her job.

People in this thread are kind of making it sound like it’s relatively “easy” to end up homeless. Like “Oops! I accidently became a meth addict and got evicted!” In reality it’s pretty easy to not become a drug addict by not getting into drugs. And the legal process for actually throwing you out of your home can often take many months.

That’s an analysis of some individuals, not homeless people in general. I pointed out the situation for people I actually know about.

I was not indicating that it is easy to end up a homeless drug addict. In fact it takes years and years of practice.

But like Tripolar stated, I am talking about people I know, not homeless in general. The OP wanted first hand experiences and I have relatives that have lived on the streets and been in and out of prison that are relevant to the OP’s question.

How difficult is it for a person to get food and housing assistance? For all the people living on the streets and in their cars, why aren’t they getting food assistance and welfare?

I didn’t experience any particular difficulty preventing me from becoming homeless when I did in 1984. Mostly all it takes is some bad planning, a lack of current income, and less than $10,000 cash on hand to cushion you. There’s a shitload of people who live paycheck-to-paycheck with no real cushion at all. Wouldn’t take much to put them there. I see plenty of bad judgment pretty regularly too: “Those damn contractors said the remodeling would be done by 1st of October and we could move back in after we came back from vacation. I’m having to sue them, and we’re living in a motel and eating out until this gets resolved” ==> legal fees, daily motel charges, expensive to eat out, no timeline for resolving the situation?!?? “I had to split up with Cindy, her affairs and drinking were just killing me, so I moved back in with Mom & Dad until I find a job here in Detroit. But they wake me up at six and start arguments, and I’m allergic to their cat, so I decided to stay with Tony, my pot dealer” ==> so you’re couch surfing and seeking a job in a new locale after a splitup?

People always ask about psychiatric conditions whenever homelessness crops up as a topic. Look at it from the backside: if you have a psych diagnosis, the likelihood of being remanded into an incarcerated setting for a few days (weeks, months) is massively higher, and when you’re in a bin it is damn hard to maintain things like rent going to the landlord in a timely fashion. It (a psych dx) doesn’t exactly do wonders for your job security if your employers find out. We no longer live in an era of long-term psychiatric locked-ward detention; instead it’s short-term quick-fix grabs to “stabilize” and then they release the individual, often to a world in which their job and their housing situation has just vaporized.

“Just fill out these forms… you’ll need proof of residence, a rent receipt or …you don’t? Oh, well, sorry, you can’t receive food stamps without proof of residence!”

Is that really the reason? If so, it seems shocking that the assistance agencies would require a permanent address for the homeless people who most need their services.

There are numerous “levels” and definitions of homelessness. Rough sleeping, vehicle dwelling, shelter living, living precariously, etc.

I know three homeless people fairly well.

The first probably became homeless through a combination of mental illness and poverty. She apparently suffers from “Narcissist Victim Disorder” (I was surprised to see that was a thing, but I don’t know if it’s in the DSM or not) and essentially only likes men who abuse her, like my neighbor and her (former) landlord, whose house is very far from my place. Once she asked me to call the police if my neighbor attacked her when she went there, but a smarter move might have been to not go in there. She is on ODSP (Ontario disability welfare) and as she is not visibly disabled my mother despises her. She and my mother bond over my neighbor, who has a magical ability to create codependent relationships with women, and they have conversations that violate Bechdel’s Law. In Ontario, if you share a kitchen and bathroom with a “landlord” then you have no tenant rights, even if you are paying rent. The landlord kicked her out. She went to a woman’s shelter more than a year ago, and I only saw her two or three times when she came to visit the neighbor. I literally do not understand why she would do this, considering she is not dependent on him in any way (it must be the mental illness). She put her stuff in storage, which cost more than half her income, and recently paid them off. I don’t know how she did this, as she has (had?) no bank account.

The second is a family member who is precariously housed. She had mental illness concerns and is an alcoholic. She used to live in a “bedroom community” and got used to driving a car, which unfortunately plays a role. She lost her job dramatically two years ago, and has not worked since. Once the unemployment ran out she stopped paying rent and was eventually evicted. She spent time precariously housed with church friends, who would get sick and tired of her behavior. Finally after another incident which included drunk driving, she updated her meds and lost her car. Unfortunately the new meds are much more powerful and put her to sleep, probably due to her drinking at the same time. She would regularly spend two or three days unconscious, only able to get up to use the bathroom, so she stopped taking them. She refuses to get them updated, even when I and an advisor both told her three ways to get them updated (including going to a walk-in clinic) and she refuses to stop drinking because addicts “can’t stop”. I finally convinced her to go on welfare, which she resisted for a long time because she had “pride”. She found an abusive former family friend to live with, who beats her, but she won’t leave for long. She sometimes goes to a hotel but can only afford a few days, and she spent a night or two in a shelter (once taken there by the police) but hates them. Her abuser does not require cash rent, and indeed pays for her food and other such necessities, and even used to let her drive one of his cars and paid for the gas. When she was taken to a shelter when the police learned of the abuse, she was back within days, and the shelter gave her space to someone else. She calls me and complains about her abuser, but refuses to leave or even admit to the police what is happening. She refuses to get a transit card (only $20) or take transit so of course she can’t go anywhere now that the abuser took his car keys back. She can leave whenever he is not home (he works) and had bragged about walking everywhere earlier once she lost her car, but apparently she lost that ability.

Lastly another family member is living with my mom and me. She is nineteen and precariously housed. She does not pay rent and has no legal rights. My mother hates her and she is only here out of a vestigial sense of family. She works part-time and cannot live by herself in this expensive city. She once moved out and lived with a roommate but she has her own problems (and it seems she has no “good” friends anyway) so that didn’t work out. Neither of her parents are responsible or willing to take her in (her father is actually semi-responsible and keeps coming up with excuses not to take her in). In this case, the issue is mainly poverty, but there’s some mental illness and some problem with lack of social capital. Both of her parents are alive but she is effectively an orphan.

In Canada, welfare is fairly easy to get and hold onto. I suspect many people are homeless due to two reasons, spatial mismatch and addiction. In the first case, services are mainly available to people in larger, more expensive cities. While homeless people travel from afar to go there, many of the local homeless really are locals, and were evicted (or foreclosed) due to financial problems. Welfare pays the same regardless of where you live in the province. I found a three bedroom house for $850 a month in the city of Edmonton, Alberta, whereas my much smaller apartment in Toronto, Ontario, has a more expensive rent. Fortunately I’m working and living in the tiniest apartment possible. Alberta welfare rates are about the same as Ontario, and I could picture three people on welfare splitting that house.

Addiction is another concern, of course. Even calculating rates is controversial, with some homeless advocates swearing up and down that these people became addicts after they became homeless, which is just false. The majority of single homeless men are addicts, whereas a minority in other categories are as well, and they typically became homeless because their addiction caused problems with their workplace, finances, and relationships. I don’t know how many homeless people receive social assistance or old age benefits; they need to be capable of following instructions, have or be able to obtain knowledge, and retain their ID to do so.

British Columbia (province) tested giving homeless people lots of money.

The article isn’t very well-written. Was that $7,500 given to them as a lump sum? Certainly not per month!

Many homeless people who aren’t suffering from mental health or addiction issues are only suffering financially. Simply giving them money helps. However, this kind of assistance only helps the short-term homeless (eg people who are temporarily down on their luck). This would not help two of the three homeless people I know.

Yes, several people.

For about six months one of my sisters was homeless - she coped by crashing on friends’ couches, sometimes sleeping in her car (after she got a vehicle) and the occasional stay in a hotel room.

My former college roommate had gone through a period of actual sleeping on the streets/in train stations prior to when we met.

One of my co-workers was homeless after the home she and her family were in was foreclosed on the owner. They were mostly sleeping in their SUV, with occasional hotel room stays. This went on for the better part of a year.

Back when I worked in shoe repair three of my co-workers were homeless folks trying to get back on their feet.

My downstairs neighbor was homeless for a couple weeks after her prior home burned down.

Those are just the ones I know that admitted to being homeless. For people who are functional it’s not always readily apparent because they’ll do what they can to keep up personal hygiene and appearances.

Yes, it is distressingly easy to fall through the cracks in this country and once you do it is very, very hard to climb out of the hole.

This is untrue.

Non-addicted, functional homeless people are INVISIBLE, but they aren’t rare. There are a lot of them out there, more than you think, and they go to a lot of effort to keep up appearances due to the stigma that being poor and homeless brings.

I agree.

Disclaimer: I’m looking back over my shoulder to an event that took place many years ago. But that’s how it went down. I figured I might as well see what kind of services were available to me, since I was in that situation. The social worker was apologetic and a bit horrified, even, to consider my situation (I guess she was used to processing people who had apartments and insufficient income and children etc etc) but said regulations required proof of income. No food stamps or public assistance designed to just hand out to random strangers walking in off the street.