There is generally a qualitative difference between male genital mutilation by circumcision and female genital mutilation, particularly in cultures where the procedures are done by the ignorant, incompetent and medically untrained.
As Kimstu points out, there’s no moral logic that supports mutilating male children while condemning mutilations on females.
What cannot be ignored at a practical level is the delayed physical consequence of any permanent mutilation. This seems minimal for ear piercing, probably minimal for circumcision and more significant for female genital manipulation. I am concerned that what seems to be being proposed is for a physician to do what amounts to a sham procedure because having physicians perform this role will elevate the parents’ impression that something anatomically significant is being performed, in the hope the parents will buy into an idea that some sort of ritual requirement has been satisfied.
I find no solace in the argument that if we physicians don’t do a sham procedure in the US in an effort to satisfy cultures too ignorant to realize a sham procedure has been done, the child will be taken overseas to have a proper mutilation carried out. This amounts to hoping the parents are too stupid to realize they’ve been head-faked by the medical profession. While such parents may not be the brightest candles on the altar, it seems to me that asking the medical profession to fake them out crosses a line.
If all that is actually being done is some trivial, substitutionary, harmless skin prick, let it be represented as exactly that. In such cases any individual with pretty minimal training could be licensed to do it, similar to ear piercing.
If, on the other hand, parents know exactly what is going to be done (“We are going to nick the skin and leave a tiny scar that will have no consequence whatsoever”) then I agree with Kimstu wholeheartedly that one cannot distinguish morally between such a procedure on girls and circumsion on males. The fact that the underlying religious beliefs for either procedure are retarded is rather besides the point…we’ve already OK’d circumcision as a society.
In short, as long as a procedure is truly trivial, and as long as the parents give truly informed consent about exactly what is being done, and as long as we allow mutilations of babies with circumcision and ear piercing, I see no difference in adding genital skin nicking to the list of things we permit. And if it’s that trivial, it’s fine to license a host of folks to do it. If the proposal is for physicians in particular to misrepresent something to the cognitively underserved in an effort to prevent them from performing more dangerous rituals on their own, I’m off the list of participants.