Nzinga_Seated:
I didn’t mean to condescend, so I have no idea what’s up with that. The pissiness though, probably comes from that fucking ‘confused’ smiley, which I hate with a passion. Don’t get me wrong; I have seen it executed with the kind of comedic timing that leaves me in giggles, but when a poster uses it to show how they just can’t fathom someone’s different viewpoint, I get annoyed enough to probably over-react. Sorry.
Lol, I actually included it to emphasise that I was just confused and would like clarification (because smileys are better than words) rather it being a case of me just passing random judgement. So there you go.
Suffice it to say, I take the word ‘friend’ seriously. I have moved an entire family of five into my two bedroom apartment, for over five months, completely stressing out my poor husband in the name of friendship. I wouldn’t do that for my aforementioned co-worker, and I know she wouldn’t do it for me.
Fair enough.