How to find childcare?

My husband and I are now the proud parents of a 3-week-old daughter. My maternity leave will end in late May, and we will have to figure out what to do with her during the days then. Mr. Nugent works at home part-time, so we don’t need full-time care, and we’re flexible on days and hours. We’re not sure whether a daycare center, a family daycare, or a nanny is the best option for us. We also don’t really know how to go about looking for any of these. We don’t have any local friends with kids that we can ask for referrals. Any thoughts on what the best options would be, and how to find them?

We’re going to see a couple of the local daycare centers on Thursday. What kinds of questions should we ask? What should we look for?

Finding care for young infants is the hardest. When my husband and I started looking, we really didn’t care for the feel of the larger places. It seemed like the babies were parked in the cribs, while the toddlers got all the attention. We ended up going with a home-daycare situation with a woman we found through my husband’s church. She only took care of a few kids at a time and it worked out very well for us. She was an older, Portuguese grandma type who had been caring for kids in her home for decades, and the babies spend most of the time on her very comfy lap. My daughter and later my son stayed with her until they were old enough to go to a larger group situation.

One good place to find referrals is local preschools. They get to see the kids right after they come out of daycare, and sometimes have good leads on reliable people. Besides, for the really good preschools, you almost have to get on there list right after birth to get in on time, so you might as well start now!

I don’t have kids and don’t know much about daycare, etc but I am wondering if your pediatrician has ideas? We found our dog’s daycare through our vet and while the situation is not similar . . . well, I guess it kind of is, isn’t it?

I don’t have kids and don’t know much about daycare, etc but I am wondering if your pediatrician has ideas? We found our dogs’ daycare through our vet and while the situation is not similar . . . well, I guess it kind of is, isn’t it?

To find a caregiver or facility:

Check with your local child care referral service.

Look in the paper for mommy and me groups or new mom support. Network with them for caregiver suggestions.

Contact the hospital where you had the baby or the birthing center nearest you, they will likely have a list of new parent groups to refer you.

Ask the pedi and the nurse if they have recommendations or are aware of a referral list.

Check with your employer, many larger companies have a referral service as part of the benefits package.

Contact your community “welcome wagon” and ask if they have suggestions.

Contact the local community college early childhood development training program, these programs sometimes run childcare there at the college. They tend to be highly acclaimed with long waiting lists though.

Don’t keep yourself from asking friends and neighbors just because none of them have small kids. Network momma! Ask everyone, even if their kids are grown your coworkers and neighbors may have good leads. Don’t forget to ask the grannies in the neighborhood either. In my experience the best places aren’t ones found through traditional advertising, because they don’t have to advertise.

Once you find a place to consider:
Make a list of the qualities and values that are most important to you in a child care setting.

Next, contact your local childcare resource and referral organization and request a list of licensed facilities near your home and/or workplace.

Arrange to visit and or interview providers at several facilities, as well as home care givers (when children are there) using your self-inventory to help you decide what questions to ask. Note the mood of both children and care givers as well as other staff.

Ask about turnover with care givers as well as how long children stay once they start coming, both are clues to stability and quality of care.

Check references.

Congrats on parenthood and best wishes for a productive search.