I’m halfway there, but there are still mundane things that piss me off. I used to get really wound up over stupid things, and I’ve made a concerted effort to stop caring about little stuff that doesn’t really matter.
I’ve made a great improvement over this past couple of months, but some things still rile me up (like computer not working properly…grr makes me angry!) Do any dopers have any tips to help me be well on my way to not giving a damn?
Strangely, what worked for me was acting like I didn’t give a damn, even when I did. Over time, I found that I got so used to pretending that I didn’t care that I stopped having to pretend. For what good that does you.
When I find yourself getting angry, I ask myself “Has this really changed the quality of my life?” Most of the time the answer is no and I can’t justify my anger.
When I do find myself obsessing about stupid things, letting them play and replay in my mind over and over, I break the loop with a little mantra “Joy, wealth, success.” Repeated several times. Yours can be anything. I just prefer a positive loop to the negative one.