I went through this about 20 years ago. I had been unemployed for about two years (officially, I was “consulting”) and saw an ad in the paper for a job that I fit like a glove. I knew that I was the best candidate. Really, the industry had seen a downturn and everyone else who had my knowledge and experience had either retired (or early retirement) or moved into another industry. Not only that, but the man would have been my boss (Mr. Boss) was a man I had known for nearly a decade, had worked with in the past, and respected my knowledge, experience, and work ethic.
So I applied. Was called for an interview within a week. I interviewed with Mr. Boss and a HR guy (a corporate guy who made sure I called him Dr. HR Guy). I had prepped for the interview by reviewing the business and the projects I had worked on with Mr. Boss in the past. The interview was strange. Mr. Boss asked me almost no questions, it was all Dr. HR Guy, and he kept asking me questions like “You say on your resume that you worked for XYZ company. If we called up your supervisor there, what would he say about you?”, to which I would respond with “I believe I gave you his name and number with my references, why don’t your just call him and find out?”. They thanked me and told me they would let me know. I wrote thank you letters to both letting them know how much I appreciated their consideration and looked forward to hearing from them.
And I waited…and waited…and waited… After three weeks of hearing nothing, I called a colleague who worked there and asked him if he knew what was going on. My colleague told me that he didn’t know, but had heard the guy I had interviewed with had been sick and out of the office a lot, but, no, the position had not been filled.
So, I waited some more, hunting up some more “consulting” work. After another three weeks, I saw the same job posted in the paper. Exact same ad with the exact same wording. I didn’t respond, since they already had my resume and knew how to get in touch with me if they wanted to.
Well, two weeks after they ran the ad the second time (two months after the first time they ran it), I got a call. Mr. Boss wanted me to come in, again. He offered me the job within 2 minutes of sitting down in his office. I asked him about the delay, and he told me he had been diagnosed with thyroid cancer and it scared the shit out of him, but they got it all and he was fine (he just needed to keep a close watch on his iodine levels). I mentioned the reposting of the job a few weeks back and he told me that it was Dr. HR Guy’s idea, that Dr. Guy didn’t have any idea of what the job entailed or what kind of person was needed to fill it. Dr. Guy was just a corporate HR guy trying to impress the corporate overlords. I asked if this was a sign that I might not be accepted in the position, and he said, “No, the only guy around here you need to worry about is me, and you have no problem there”.
So I took the job. Mr. Boss left the company within six months of my hiring. I was not ready to, nor was I interested in, taking his place. The others in management who saw what was going on when I was hired thought that they could get corporate brownie points by running me off, but corporate really didn’t care (Mr. Boss was right about that). I stuck it out there for nearly 14 years, helping increase their output by ten times (that’s 1000%) and ending up reporting to the company president. When I gave notice that I was going to work for a competitor, instead of saying “Fine, there is the door and we don’t want to see you around here any more”, which is typical for people who leave for a competitor in the industry, they said “We can’t accept two weeks notice, we will need six weeks. We will make sure your new employer is OK with that and give you a 20% bonus (based on annual salary) at the end of those six weeks”.
So, don’t give up. Since then, I have worked on the other side of hiring quite a bit and have found out that a lot of things go on that have nothing to do with your or the position, but do take a lot of time to take care of. For most of the people involved, hiring people is not really their job; their job is doing the things that makes the company work. Filling the position is just an “extra job” they have to take care of in addition to their other duties.