Ah, so sorry. I’ve only just discovered this thread, and I’m slowly working my way through it. There’s a tremendous amount to unpack here. I will always post links that refute the Cass report whenever I see it referred to.
Some of you may find the ‘Gender Support’ thread useful - searching doesn’t show that anyone else has referenced it yet. Gender Support Thread for Dopers who are gender diverse, families of trans people, or allies