You are one throbbing, pus-filled little hemorrhoid, aren’t you? I certainly hope your mother stapled and super-glued her cunt shut after she had you.
You’ve obviously displayed that you don’t quite have two brain cells to rub together so I’ll quote something for you. Read slowly so you get it all:
(Look! I even put it in BOLD so you could read it better!)
How you can defend someone who says that infertile couples are “selfish” because they are trying whatever in their means to have their own biological child? Your thinking is reprehensible and you should be very ashamed of yourself. Do you think people who conceive naturally are selfish?
VC03 deserved every insult he received. How dare that piece of shit kick people in the teeth when they’re down? It’s bad enough every. single. month. we are thrown around on an emotional roller-coaster: temperature taking, doctor’s appointments, hormone drugs, all the travel and time off of work, checking symptoms, excitement, worry, anticipation, then grief. EVERY. SINGLE. MONTH. And then someone comes along and passes judgment because some other person is taking the steps they desire to achieve their DREAMS?!
That was a horrible analogy. But since you are using that, let’s fly with it.
Someone with MS: their insurance doesn’t cover the wheelchair they need to get around and say it’s . . . oh $15,000 for the basic one and they can’t even guarantee it works and there are NO refunds. Doesn’t work? Well, you can spend another $15,000 to buy a new one. Oh, don’t have the money? Too bad – (in VC03’s world) quit being so selfish! How about their pain medication? According to him, it’s selfish for them to buy it to control it. People have it far worse than them, you know?
And your agony reasoning, what makes you think that agony is only in your nervous system or something you feel on your body? Emotional agony is just as hard. Or are you going to say depressive and suicidal people aren’t in agony?
We know there are options. Telling someone they’re SELFISH for pursuing the option they like best is cruel.
Squirming around in your uterus? Wow. That is so heartless. You obviously have never felt the pain of infertility or a miscarriage.
A little insensitive? He deserves FAR more disdain for what he said.
No one here was asking for opinions or endorsements on which route to solve infertility issues. VC03 decided to take it upon himself to tell the OP (and anyone else who is going through fertility treatment) that they’re SELFISH for not wanting to take the option VC03 wants them to take. And you have the balls to call ME out? I’m not the one passing judgement on others for a PERSONAL DECISION.
Maybe you should try READING a little more, you would see you (and your friends Greathouse and VC03) are clearly in the wrong here. You don’t pass judgment on couples who are doing their best to get around the problems they have. I don’t give a fuck what YOU would do in those circumstances. It’s a decision between you and your SO, or do you need to run it past all of us here before you make a huge, highly-personal, and very emotional decision?