I can't wait to hear from the fertility doctor's office...

Wow. This thread was not one I thought would meltdown. It was like a nuclear bomb just landed right in the middle.

Just wow.

You’re a sick, twisted, little man. Fuck you Greathouse.

Sad thing about all this: your last post made you look even dumber. You’re trying to rewrite what happened here in this thread.

Life will get you one day, count on it. Every bad thing that happens to you, think about what a horrible person you are and how much you deserve every last bit of pain and suffering you receive.

I see I was wrong. You are quite the little charmer, aren’t you?

I find your delusions to be neither humorous nor creative. Feel free to try again.

Please don’t put the bad juju on me. Please, oh please, anything except the karma curse.

Pink, somehow that nasty isn’t worth your time or ire.

Good luck to you.

Anaamika, is this what you were referring to? It is indeed very sad.

Thank you, I really appreciate it.

I agree. Ignore him. I hope you get pregnant real soon.

In the meantime feeling awful because you have medical problem (and yes infertility is a serious medical problem) is perfectly understandable. You have every right to be angry and sad.

I agree. Ignore that piece of shit…oh, wait.

I’m trying. I just felt it was my place to step in and stick up for the OP. He shouldn’t feel guilty for using whatever means necessary to have a family. Since I might have to use this option down the road, I felt like I was defending MY right to have a child as well.

Some people may think I flew off the handle in my post to VC03, but I don’t think he quite understood what he was saying and how hurtful it is. Even after it was explained to him, he still just blew us off about it. If he hadn’t of been so flippant and apologized, maybe this thread would have turned out differently.

I’m sad about it, but I’m not sorry. Between him and Greathouse, I think I have met two of the most vile people here. The thread speaks for itself.

Hey Greathouse, how about you STFU? And stay out of threads like this one in the future, huh? I think your opinion is valid, but there’s a time and a place and this is the wrong time and the wrong place for you to be mouthing off. Would you go to the families of the miners in West Virginia and loudly proclaim it was their own damn fault they’re dead because they chose to go into the mine? That’s what you sound like here.

**Max ** is having a tough time, and came here to vent. Anyone who knows how these kinds of threads work knows that a lot of people with similar experiences and opinions would join the thread to commiserate. Regardless of whether you agree with anyone here, you should respect the need and value of people in pain commiserating with each other. It doesn’t matter if you don’t share their pain. Go start a GD thread on fertility, or go start a Pit rant on how everyone who doesn’t share your worldview is an idiot. Just leave these people and this thread alone. **VC03 ** never asked you to come in here and flame on his behalf, anyway.

Yeah, I was about to. But, hey if you want to keep posting to me, I’ll keep replying.

Maybe, but most likely not.

So returning someone’s bitchy attitude is the same as telling someone there is nobody to blame for an accidental death other than the dead person. Whatever helps you sleep at night.

I do feel bad for people who cannot have children and desperately want them. That has nothing to do with someone flying off the handle and being a total bitch for no reason at all. I saw a possible soft spot and went for it.

Yes. I am familiar with the process. I’ve seen it several times over the years. If you notice, I did not have a problem with her initial post. It was when she started being a bitch and climbing onto the cross that I replied to her post.

I have no problem with this. And when she was doing this, I had no problem with her.

Thanks for the advise. I will be sure to give it its due consideration.

I believe that I have been very nice to everyone in this thread except for her. She’s the one who went from zero to bitch in about 6 seconds. I decided to do the same.

And PM never asked you to take up her banner. I don’t see the difference, honestly.

Look asshole, I’m not going to sit here and let you lie about me and this thread. I know you feel like a big, tough guy because you know how to jump in threads and fling poop everywhere, but it’s not cute.

I told VC03 off – RIGHTFULLY- for his insensitive and atrocious comment. I wasn’t the only one to do so. So then you jump in and call me a cunt out of no where, (the worst thing you can call a woman) all because I told VC03 to fuck off.

YOU hit below the belt. YOU started this shit storm. YOU are the one who continued to berate me and make foolish assumptions about my fertility – of which you know NOTHING about. YOU created this mess and now you sit back, smile on your face, probably jerking off, and pretending like it was all my fault.

Real classy.

Well, keep saying it . . . doesn’t make it true. Read over the thread. This is your design and you are a worthless piece of shit for upsetting people who are already going through a hard time. You keep trying to turn this around on me, you think you’re that clever, but anyone who reads this will see that you hit first.

This is YOUR fault. You’re a creep and a disgusting waste of oxygen.

Actually, from the perspective of an uninterested bystander, you both look like you’re at fault.

You’re right, I shouldn’t have encouraged you. I forgot the rule about feeding the dirtbags. Please consider my previous post rescinded and don’t feel the need to respond to this one.

Everyone else in this thread: I’m putting this jerk on /ignore. I suggest you all do the same.

Against the rules, Leviosaurus. Don’t do it again.

Damn, I had no idea that was a rule. :smack: :smiley: Seems kind of crazy. Okay, apologies.

Mod hat off, I’ve got to agree with this. PinkMarabou response to VCO3’s simple use of the word “selfish” was pretty over the top, to which Greathouse responded by acting like somewhat of a dick.

Gotta love the Pit…

Put it in context though - I agree PinkMarabou’s comments would be a bit over the top if we were in a discussion about, say, dandelions. If the subject of fertility came up in passing, and she responded as she did, I would say she needed to tone it down.

But this is in the context of a thread specifically started by someone in emotional distress over having been mistreated by a fertility clinic, looking for some support. In that context, her comments are appropriate, if a bit harsh. The response she recieved was *entirely * inappropriate.

What makes this tragic is that **Max ** will undoubtedly not come back to this thread. The guy’s in a really tough place and just needed to reach out a bit. Instead he got this thread filled with spam criticizing people who go to fertility clinics - responses which did not belong here in the first place. Now we’ll never know how this will come out for him and that’s a damn shame.

If I were a mod, I’d be invoking the “don’t be a jerk” rule. But hey, I ain’t a mod.

I agree with Leviosaurus.

The above paragraph is just very creepy and exceedingly inappropriate. This is especially true given that the OP specifically said he did in fact spend 10K in an attempt to have a baby. And given that adoption (even here in the USA) may not be that inexpensive it’s also a very ignorant statement.

I am again sorry that Max and Maxwife went through this procedure in the first place. I am also sorry they are still being frustrated months after the entire procedure did not work. Having had similar issues with a fertility doctor of my own I am sadly not surprised.

Actually, I was specifically referring to post #16. VC03’s comments were perhaps ill advised, but he sensibly quit posting. Someone else threw gas on the fire.