I din't choose ___, it chose me

Madonna’s new movie on Africa starts with her saying (close paraphrase) “People ask me why I chose Malawi, but I say I didn’t Malawi chose me” No surprise that the Material Girl kicks the film off with a clichéd hackneyed phrase but I was wondering about the origin of this and where it came from.

I see Adrienne Rich used it in a Poem in the 70’s and in the last 5 years :Benazir Bhutto use it in a book, A Member of the Aryan Brotherhood uses it in a Newsweek Article, and it is in the Title of a Memoir so named from Ebony Stroman

If we can’t say where it started, can we say where it became popular enough to be kind of familiar (i.e was it in a speech or Movie)?
(I know Jesus tells the Disciples in John 15 You did not choose Me but I chose you … but I think that is exactly the opposite of the ego-stroking phrase above)

Friedrich Nietzsche was
[quoted]
(Friedrich Nietzsche Quotes - The Quotations Page) as saying “When you gaze into the abyss, it gazes back into you”, which could conceivably have been twisted into this statement. (Personally I’ve always thought he was misquoted and wasn’t being deep but was just pissed off over losing a staring contest with the head of a convent.)