I feel bad for the Boy Scouts

sigh One of these days we’re going to be able to debate the philosophical underpinnings of a particular religion without causing a holy war. I just know it.

Believe it or not, there are people out there who disagree with Christianity. I have specific and (I think) valid reasons for disagreeing with Christianity. I didn’t just spin the great roulette wheel of life and jump out of the United Church slot into the Wiccan slot. I did it because I thought and think that Christianity is in error. I had specific philosophical reasons for this that I’m prepared to debate. And I would really appreciate it if certain people didn’t treat this as some kind of jihad.

Shriek! Groan!

First, to the OP. I feel the BSA is being self-righteous in their attitude, and probably feels like it’s (a) “defending our boys against those pederasts that everyone knows gay men are” :rolleyes: and (b) “setting an example so that boys tempted to be gay can change before it’s too late.” {Insert smiley pointing to rolleyes smiley and saying “Me too”} Anyone who wants to go into detail what’s wrong with those two points is more than welcome to; just realize that I’m attributing an attitude to them, not alleging it myself!

Second, the BSA is an association which you can choose to join or not…a private group protected by the First Amendment. The fact that they have decided to exclude out gays is their privilege. What gets to me is the idea that for over 99% of American boys, it’s the one option for the sort of things that Scouting brings to a boy’s life. The alternatives that do exist are local and barely getting off the ground. As such, I personally feel it should be held to a higher standard than the Foursquare Gospel True Believers Apostolic Church or the International Order of Odd Fellows, where alternative choices are a dime a dozen.

Vestal is putting forth a fairly common assertion concerning the validity of the Bible, and one held by the vast majority of Christians. Factually, he has a few small errors: what the Dead Sea Scrolls preserve is a few O.T. books and commentaries on them; aside from quotations and a couple of papyrus scraps, the oldest extant Bibles are 6th century. I think I’d concur that they are fairly accurate.

However, terminology is touchy. The Biblical usage “know” for “have sex with” is classic in this regard. If Vestal Blue knows precisely what St. Paul meant by “arsenokaitos” he is several steps ahead of every competent Biblical scholar of any tradition. (In fact, not a few competent scholars have thought that Paul’s “thorn in the flesh” was homosexuality – that he was gay and self-loathing because it was wrong under the Law, making him an unregenerate sinner, and hence rejoicing in his freedom from the Law in Christ but still feeling guilt for it – without digging up old problems, he was, in short, Snark.)

So I’m not prepared to make any suppositions about what the Bible may have to say about the moral capacity of gays. For me, they have the same problem the rest of us do – to live a life according to the moral standards they feel right for themselves, aided by what authority they accept as proper guidance in setting their own standards.

Having argued against “the homosexual agenda” terminology in the past, I’m going to do an about face, Hastur, and say that there is one: a set of goals shared by virtually all gay people.

[li]The freedom to live and work without persecution[/li][li]The freedom to have a normal sex life without being entrapped and arrested[/li][li]The freedom to marry the person they love, and have that marriage accepted in law as giving them the same rights as any other married person vis-a-vis the spouse[/li][li]The right to have the benefits they receive on a job extended to their chosen family (spouse and any children) exactly as straight people’s are[/li]…etc.

And I feel that any right-thinking individual would have no problem supporting that agenda.

Falcon, I have not yet gotten the alert you said you sent me; I happened on this thread and saw it.

Matt, that sounds like a useful new thread. What exactly are your problems with Christian belief – not the attitudes of particular self-designated Christians, but the doctrine as you learned it? Can we discuss it?

Vestal Blue, I will grant you that Paul unequivocally condemns homosexuality in Romans 1:26-27. Paul also says that people who disobey their parents should be condemned to death (Romans 1:30-32). Are you going to kill your son the next time he sasses you? Why not? Is Paul inerrant on one line and mistaken on another?

But why should any intelligent person be bound by the dictates of the Bible? It is just a book. There are plenty of other holy writings, such as the Dhammapada or the Bhagavad-Gita, that have also maintained textual accuracy over millennia, in both cases longer than the Bible. If you’re using textual coherence as a proof of divine inspiration, then Buddhist and Hindu scriptures are holier than the Bible, and neither religion condemns homosexuality.

In any event, sexual orientation has no moral dimension. I am gay, I’m a brunette, and I’m left-handed, all innate conditions, neither good nor bad. I try to be kind, generous and loving to my friends and forgiving to my enemies. If
that’s not good enough for you, too bad.

Poly, and other interested parties, if you haven’t already, head over to http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=49890 .

I have read the Bible from cover to cover. I have also read the Sea Scrolls. I’ve also read the Pseudopigrapha. I am more than familiar with your religion. You can spout all the contradictions you wish, Blue, but they are just hollow words.

You are not a true Christian because you think you can hide behind false interpretations of the Bible and judge others. Your posts show someone sitting in smug condemnation of something you personally hate and fear. You retaliate with hatred when you post and have your narrow views contradicted. You don’t wish to grow, learn, or fight ignorance… you just want to live in prejudice and spread it to others.

Danielle Dax said it best:

"He was a big hollow man,
with a fist full of sham,
came a walking across the sea.

All leathery charms,
as he pinwheeled his arms,
and he talked to all he could see.

He said god will provide the way.
You read about it every day, I’m telling ya.
All you have to do is pray,
and furnish his house with silver."

Can’t believe someone didn’t get this first. Vestal, spell these for me: J-E-S-U-S. P-A-U-L.

Paul was a homophobe (perhaps a latent homosexual), a misogynist, and is a large part of the intolerance of Christianity. Jesus was a good guy. But to return to my original point, Jesus didn’t say it; Paul did. Paul didn’t meet Jesus in the flesh (though we’ll leave ghosts to a different thread). Repeat, Paul didn’t meet Jesus. Jesus didn’t say that. Paul said that. Paul didn’t meet Jesus. God, according to Jesus, doesn’t hate fags. God, according to Paul, does. Paul didn’t meet Jesus. The heart of true Christianity lies in the gospels. The dreck of organized religion lies in the rest of the NT.

Thank you, and remember, Paul didn’t meet Jesus.
[Disclaimer] The above is based on the premise that claiming to have met a ghost, spirit, or 90ft. Jesus is BS.

stofsky,

Ok, you beat me by about 40 minutes. I weep for those who call themselves “Christians” while ignoring the spirit and message that Jesus taught and died for, while embracing the inanne mumblings of Paul. I call them “Paulinans”.

Please don’t take your grievences out on the boy scouts when it is really the boy scouts of America you are disgusted with.
In other words please don’t hurt the local level boys because you are angry with the national people.
THESE KIDS ARE 8YEARS OLD AND UP.

You weren’t talking about Christianity…you were talking about people who say ‘love the sinner, hate the sin’ and implying they were all homophobic hate-mongers. I have no love for Christianity myself, but I love a lot of Christians (my wife included). Making generalizations about people who feel that homosexuality is wrong because of their religious beliefs is not hating Christianity, it’s hating individual Christians - and they ARE individuals, they don’t all think alike.

heyyyyyy yeah! Walking in the valle of decision…

heyyyyyy yeah!

Ok I have to go download that song now and have a late 80’s flashback. I think I’ll wear eyeliner today and comb my bangs over my face.

I met MC 900 FT Jesus once and he didn’t hate gay people but they all did sweat a lot.

I have continued to read this thread up to this point, and I would just like to say that it was never my intent to cause a holy war, or to get so far off the subject of the OP.
Although I can see how it would be interpreted as such, I truly believe that I do not judge or hate anyone. Going back over my posts, I can see how that can be construed.
my faith still stands, but I’ll admit to not being apparently as learned in this area as Hastur, and certainly not as learned as Polycarp, a lack I intend to rectify.
I wish to thank everyone in this thread, for bringing this to the forefront in my mind, and causing me to give it serious consideration (It kept me awake a good part of the night). I am willing to learn, and to change, and I sincerely apologize to those I have offended, Hastur and Esprix in particular.
I don’t like the division that at this point in time I feel my faith brings up. I feel there has to be a way to reconcile all these differences, and it truly pains me that it isn’t so.
I genuinely believe in forgiveness and Grace through Jesus Christ, and that we are all children of God. I am aware that not all the world believes in Christianity, and that it has been it’s own worst enemy at times.
I am also aware that not all homosexuals are running around looking for little boys to bugger; I suspect the ratio of criminals is no higher than in the general population.
This is an issue that isn’t going to go away, but please understand that I don’t know if I will ever be able to come to terms in myself with homosexuality vis a vis 40 years of canalization. Being victimized by a homosexual teen as a 10 year old, and learning that a maternal uncle was a pedophile and victimized my brother over several years hasn’t helped any either. Cancer put him beyond the reach of justice in this case; otherwise I might have shot the bastard myself.
The way I come across on this subject is coloured by this, and I view it through warped glasses. Please be patient with me as I work it out, and forgive me any hurt I’ve caused; it was never my intent.

I’d like to take part in that also; I sense I have a lot to learn, and, perhaps, some unlearning to do.

I was a Boy Scout, and nobody ever told me that gays weren’t allowed.

It’s bad enough that they expel scouts for something that they have no control over. Claiming to be “inclusive” and then kicking people out for being gay without making their policy clear is absolutely dishonest.

I thought scouts were supposed to be trustworthy.

Ahh…took long enough to get through the backlog to get to where I could comment :).

If a group like the Boy Scouts wishes to exclude gays, then by the First Amendment right of free association certainly allow them to do so. If there’s a group that wishes to exclude blacks, white, Asians, Hispanics, left-handed transexual blondes, then by all means they have the right to do so. The idea of government forcing their way into private organizations is certainly a chilling one (I’m sure that many of you wouldn’t agree that the government has any right if a conserative government forced their way into liberal groups). My mentor, who happens to be a homosexual, athiestic Libertarian, would certainly agree with that statement. However, people who do not agree certainly have the right to protest any group they see fit. But for God sakes, leave the goddamn government out of the process!!!

As for my stance on homosexuality, I feel that people have the right to do whatever they choose so long as they don’t infringe another’s rights, so certainly the choice to enjoy people of the same sex harms noone (the way I look at it…hey, less competition for women :slight_smile: ). But I certainly do not support “gay rights” because any right given specifically to any group is implicitly at the cost of another group (this article “Equal Rights, not Gay Rights” at HpPub.com is for sale | HugeDomains is a good explaination of exactly what I mean.)

Incidentally, if anyone cares to call me a homophobe, be my guest, because the only way * ad hominem * works as a weapon is if a person lets it bother them, and quite frankly too many people have hidden the truth too long for fear of being smeared as a “bigot”. So the truth is if you call me that, then I know I’m winning :slight_smile:

An atheistic, homosexual libertarian? There’s something we don’t have on the boards. And, for the benefit of others (and to keep you from getting seen as a homophobe unjustly), I’ll quote from your link as to what “equal rights” entail:

Why call you a homophobe when clearly you’re not, if you are in agreement with that list (although personally I’m pro-Hate Crimes, but that’s another thread entirely)?

Esprix

I’m just saying that I don’t care to muzzle my thoughts because of fear of being labeled a “bigot” (ie, if I’m opposed to affirmative action, then I’m a racist…that sort of thing). If what I say makes me homophobic in someone’s eyes, then so be it…everyone has a right to their opinion…of course, I also have the right to dismiss their opinion as well. I’m not going to let the power that those words have (despite their somewhat indiscriminate use) be used as a weapon against dissent.

But yes…I think that the hate crimes thread would be a good debate. I think there’s one already around (as I was writing a post about opposition to hate crime legislation, but clicked back to quote the previous posts and lost it…and as much as I’d written I said “screw it!” and didn’t redo it). So if there isn’t one, I’d certainly be glad to start it :slight_smile:

But yes…I think that the hate crimes thread would be a good debate. I think there’s one already around (as I was writing a post about opposition to hate crime legislation, but clicked back to quote the previous posts and lost it…and as much as I’d written I said “screw it!” and didn’t redo it). So if there isn’t one, I’d certainly be glad to start it :slight_smile: