I got a personal Christmas card from a client on Friday (sad story ahead)

Over the summer, we diagnosed a cat with kidney failure. His owners were devastated, but they agreed to give him subcutaneous fluids at home to keep him going. For the past six months, I thought about that kitty all the time, and was always encouraged when the husband came in for more fluids and needles. He started to go down hill in the middle of December, and they decided to put him to sleep. It was a difficult decision for them, but it was the right one. Unfortunately, the wife couldn’t make it, but I was really glad to be the tech that helped in the process; he was “my” patient. When it was all said and done, the husband told the doctor how much he had appreciated all of my help and the genuine care and concern during the past six months. (It’s always nice to be genuinely praised in front of your boss!)

They opted for individual cremation with ashes returned, and I was the one who called to let them know. I was out to lunch when he came to pick up the remains. When I got back, I had a card waiting for me. In very loopy feminine handwriting, it said: “We wanted to thank you so much with all your help with Kitty. You were so patient and professional in helping us get set up with the fluids then later taking care of my Husband when I couldn’t. Thank you for being there. It was like losing one of your kids. They are a part of your family. We hope yours are wonderful.”
In slightly awkward, obviously male handwriting, it said: “You’re the best. Thank you.”

Made me cry!

You should be very proud, you are obviously in the right job!

You done good.

That is awesome. I lost a cat the same way and the vet did not make sure I understood how to care for him, and when I had to bring him in to be put to sleep, was very rude to me and did not even tell me when it was “time”…

So, coming from a similar situation, I also want to thank you for being an awesome tech! You obviously made a great impact on them. Yes, you should be very proud as SunSandSuffering said!

Nah, don’t cry be proud of yourself. :slight_smile: And it was nice of them to tell you how much they appreciated your care.

Ya done good.

Me too!

Those are the good kind of tears. You did all you could for the poor kitty. The owners appreciated everything you could do to save it. Even though the cat passed on, he had a few extra months that he wouldn’t have had without your care and compassion and you’re not just in the animal business, you’re there for the people who cherish them as members of their family. You did well and should feel, well, if not exactly happy, a sense of peace that his owners appreciated all you did for them. Merry Christmas to you.

This was very thoughtful of your clients and I agree: you should be very proud they thought so highly of you.

I suspect that many folks get so wrapped up in their grief, they may not think of their veterinarian or how he or she may be feeling about their loss. It’s just human nature and no criticism of is intended.

As you see, your Doper friends are all very proud of you!

Quasi