ivylass, I am so sorry to hear this. I was laid off in early September, and I got a new job relatively quickly. However, after enduring the daily flood of emails from LinkedIn and Indeed, I can honestly say I did not find either of those sites particularly useful for the job search. I think that the best service they perform is to get you seen by recruiters, which, if you want to go the contracting for a bit, is not a terrible road of pursuit. That is, you might be able to find a contracting gig that will give you something while you continue searching for a longer-term position.
I had more interviews with companies in which I knew people or had been referred by people I knew directly. So, my advice is to start with your network of friends with whom you have had a real (face-to-face) relationship in the past. I feel those contacts will get you further than the instant connections made through LinkedIn or other networking sites.
I live in Kansas, but got laid off from a Missouri company. Therefore, I had to apply for unemployment benefits from Missouri. Each state is going to have its own rules and hoops through which you will need to jump, and they suck. My guess is that they make it as difficult as they can to avoid handing out money.
As far as the Missouri rules go, I was “penalized” for my final paycheck. I was laid off on the second Monday of the pay period, and received my final paycheck on the Friday following. In Missouri, you request benefits for the week previous week. (There is also a waiting period of 1-2 weeks in Missouri.) Thus, since I technically had income for that final week (all 2.5 hours of it), it would have counted against me and would have made me ineligible for benefits had I not been in the waiting period. I didn’t receive my severance package until about a month later, and, at least in Missouri, the actual severance package does not get counted against your unemployment benefits.
I have to admit that jumping through all the job-search hoops (minimum of three job-search contacts/applications per week) and doing the weekly paperwork for what was a relatively small sum of money each week seemed ludicrous, until I realized that each of the weeks for which I have received/will receive benefits paid for one bill or another, so it was a matter of perspective.
Of course, every state is going to be different. My daughter was laid off earlier this year and was seeking Kansas unemployment benefits, and they were really strict. She also had to have three job search contacts each week, but hers had to be different. For me, interviewing with a recruiter on Monday for a position at a company and then interviewing with the same recruiter on Thursday for a different position at that company counted as two separate contacts, but for her, they counted it as only having a single job search contact.
Stay strong! Get drunk, cry, be upset, but also know that you can rise above this.