I just took my last pill yesterday morning - in exactly 1 week, I will be free from the hormone-controlling birth control pills. I’ve been taking them since I was 21 (about 10 years).
I can figure out the obvious things about being off the pill - my period may come at strange times (I wasn’t especially regular before), and I have to use alternative birth control (at least till after the wedding! ;-).
I’m hoping to get advice about the stuff I haven’t thought of. From anyone who’s done this as well, are your mood swings bad? Or better? Are your cramps worse? More headaches, less headaches? Anything else I’m not mentioning? Am I expecting there to be a big change, but it’ll probably be nothing?
I know when I forgot to get a new pack and thusly was pill free for a month, weird stuff happened. My boobs got really tender and sensitive for a few weeks and I got really…well…horny like a guy. Just be prepared!
I used to get horrible cramps when I was young. I was on the pill for a number of years (about 8, IIRC), then went off for about 18 months to see what effect it would have on my migraines. My migraines were worse, which was unusual - for most women, migraines are worse on the pill. But my cramps were pretty much gone, and my period, though longer off the pill, were a lot lighter than they were when I was younger, and I had almost no cramping. Your body changes a lot in 10 years, so things may be very different for you now than they were then.
I was only on the pill for a year, but my cramps, PMS, flow, and length were all worse when I wasn’t taking it. I also wasn’t as reliable; I’d generally start within the week, not down to the day like when I was on the pill.
And I don’t know why I’m talking about this in the past tense, b/c it’s still true. It’s been about seven years since I was on the pill, and as a matter of fact, I’m PMSing right now! Yippeeee!
The first time I went off the pill, I practically hemorrhaged during my first period.
The second time I went off the pill my skin went haywire - I had absolutely horrible acne for about a year (I’d gone back on the pill after a few months).
I haven’t gone off the pill a third time, for what by now are probably obvious reasons.