A reasonable person who locked themselves in their room because they were throwing a tantrum like a 3 year old at a roomie or a relative and had to pee really really bad would pee their pants.
The OP did not pee his pants but held it in until his bladder exploded which launched him out of his two-story window onto the concrete patio below crushing and killing Fluffy the local neighborhood stray that everyone loved and adored and also breaking both of his legs and spine which put him into a wheelchair. And the OP blames his father for not doing a spinal transplant with him so that he may someday walk again. Personally I’d be pissed off at my dad too if he didn’t give up his spine for me. Bastard.
**Broomstick **needs to realize at some point that **etv78 **is not her spouse, regardless of the similarities in disabilities. They’re the same affliction, sure, but as far as you know that’s where the similarities begin and end.
For one, I doubt your spouse is trolling message boards left and right. Maybe he is, but I don’t think so.
Your spouse sounds like a cool guy. Someone that doesn’t make excuses and has made it married to you this long with both of his femurs intact so that must say something, but try to remember that etv is a completely different person with different issues that don’t fit into the same box as your spouse’s.
“E-mail abuse resulting in suspension/expulsion from university” doesn’t seem like it covers a lot of ground in possible scenarios. It’s not like he was slapping the computer upside the monitor. The only thing I can think of right now that would qualify as “E-mail abuse” would be harassing or threatening another student. I’m genuinely curious what the E-mail abuse was, not that I expect the OP to divulge that information, nor do I suspect that the OP ever intended to divulge said info.
Holding your pee in until your bladder explodes isn’t “stupid and foolish”. It’s incredibly, breathtakingly insane and masochistic.
You’re certainly not the only one. I would think it would have to be something pretty severe to get one suspended out right, rather than just disciplined.
Why, because after dozens of posts trying to help by parsing your brief comments and suggesting possibilities and ways to work things out, we got a little impatient and snarky at your continued avoidance of all the questions?
You’ve had a lot of supporters here who clearly know things about you from private communication and following your other posts, who have kept the snarkier elements in check, waiting for you to show up and glean some value from all that’s been said on your behalf here.
And that’s your reply to all of them - all of us.
Good luck ever getting an answer to anything here again. And because it’s the Pit, I can say this: Boo-hoo, too fuckin’ bad, Get Over It, grow up and HOW SAD TOO BAD YOUR DAD.
Most Uni’s around here take a pretty dim view of using their facilities to download and distribute porn or pirate movies - about the only other two things I could think of.