Abuse goes hush-hush in the Orthodox community because they’d rather not turn it over to secular authorities.
Conservatives pretend to be scared of ‘sharia law’ but we have some twisted 21st C. perverted versions of ‘Torah law’ going on right here. None of it is in the Torah, of course.
Fucking assholes.
It’s not all Orthodox Jews that I’m pitting - it’s the ones that enable this shit to go on.
This, and the issues in the Catholic church (and even, it could be argued, the Sandusky thing) are perfect examples of why letting religious communities police themselves is a horrible idea. The concerns of Important People within the community will always take precedence over those of the common people.
I’m not under any impression that we let these people police themselves. They are just doing it on their own. It’s really hard to police a group of people who voluntarily won’t tell other people about their problems.
I know accusations of sexual wrong-doing are potentially damaging to someone and shouldn’t be levied casually, especially since they are often so hard to prove. But come on now. There’s a difference between taking a neutral stance until an investigation is finished and having a ticker-tape parade to rally behind the accused. Unless you have 24/7 surveillance footage of a person, you don’t know what they do or have done behind closed doors. Every person is capable of molestation and rape–especially people in power. If you throw your support behind someone who is charged with a crime you have no way of knowing that they did or not, don’t you look a little crazy when all the evidence rolls in?
Of course . . . this just made me think of a recent thread (can’t quite find it) where someone was advocating that we allow religions to enforce their own marriage/divorce “laws”.
Great for you. Would you want the county Sheriff enforcing a judgment (with the power to throw you in jail, because you didn’t kiss the pastor’s ass) on you if the decision had gone the other way?
I wouldn’t, especially if I had already decided that the pastor in question was religiously ‘full of shit’, but I have to abide by his decision, anyway, under force of law, enforced by the local Sheriff’s office, and the local court, for his religious judgment, just because I once accepted him as a religious authority.
The proposal presupposes that you are not allowed to change your mind on religion.
I’m thinking it’s a good thing for the Bet Din (however you spell it) to take care of the Religious stuff and Pulaski County to take care of the legal stuff, even if the Pu Co judge screwed me.
Sorry if humor overcame my explanation.
All a Jewish Religious court does in a divorce is assure that everyone’s name is spelled right, and everyone knows that she is religiously divorced. She can’t remarry without one, but I can, because Jewish guys can technically have more than one wife.
They didn’t tell me about this when I signed up, dammit.