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You know, it occurs to me that we always say that we wouldn’t expect other countries to accommodate our English if we moved to a country that didn’t speak a lot of English, that we would expect to learn the language of the country we moved to, but is this actually true?
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Y’know, that’s an interesting question, and I’d wager that, for some of us, the answer would be “yes”.
During the long-distance part of our relationship, my ex-husband was in his native Switzerland, and I was in the States. I would take a month off from work to spend time in der Schweiz, and before I went, I spent some time teaching myself German, even though I was told that some people there spoke English.
My ex couldn’t be with me all day, as he had to work, so I had to make sure that I could make my around the city–Basel–on my own.
And sure enough, one day I went into a store to buy some velcro (it’s how I keep my kippah attached to my head), and the saleswoman there didn’t speak English. So, yep, I had to buy some velcro using my left-quite-a-bit-to-be-desired German.
Now, whenever people were speaking at their usual speed and using their usual vocabularies (my vocabulary was, of course, very basic)–or when, as might be expected, they were speaking Swiss German–I’d be at a total loss, but I was able to do at least some basic things in German, just as it should have been.